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PostPosted: Thu Mar 03, 2016 10:54 pm 
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Hey guys, I am new to the PUA world , just discovered it via The Game of Neil Strauss. I am a 21 years old Moroccan guy and I have a little issue... I traveled last week end with two girls from my university for a professional matter, one of the girls is a friend and I used to not like the other one that much. I kinda got to know her better and the more I did the more I liked her I ran some few things I've learned from 'The Game' when I saw that she was very interested in me she gave many IOI's. The thing is that she has got a BF "nothing serious" I guess... We spent a night together the 3 of us , my friend slept and I was talking with the girl while we were hugging, and she was kinda split between her thinking of her BF and wanting me so we didn't even kiss I kinda fucked up in here I guess it's normal 'cause I just discovered all of this PUA world but we got sooo familiar with each other we spent hours talking and hugging but now that the trip ended and we returned to the university we barely say hello to each other it's kinda awkward for me I want more than that and I don't know how to proceed so that she like me again 'cause we will still be having 3 - 4 other trips to other cities and now we barely talk we are kinda losing that connexion and I don't want to show that I am interested in her... not now at least.
Need your help guys.
P.S: My English is not perfect it's not my mother tongue so sorry if there is any mistake


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 03, 2016 11:50 pm 
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I don't want to show that I am interested in her
This part doesn't make sense to me. Why wouldn't you want her to know you are interested?

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 04, 2016 12:16 am 
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Because she's the kind of girls who are more attracted to guys who don't give a damn about them, the moment she knows you are into her, she will back off and stop being into you.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 04, 2016 12:28 am 
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Because she's the kind of girls who are more attracted to guys who don't give a damn about them, the moment she knows you are into her, she will back off and stop being into you.
That's absolutely ridiculous. You're saying that she only likes guys who are not interested in her? It's more likely that she isn't interested in guys who get too clingy too fast, feels like they are forcing the idea of a relationship, or isn't much of a challenge. I'd bet that if you shown interest without without putting her in the position of being the prize, shed be showing interest in return.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 04, 2016 6:58 am 
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Hmm I see, do you have any Ideas on how I can proceed to do so ?


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Hmm I see, do you have any Ideas on how I can proceed to do so ?


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 04, 2016 7:24 am 
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Hmm I see, do you have any Ideas on how I can proceed to do so ?
Be normal and quit being awkward when you're around her. Have conversations and flirt with her. Invite her to hang out. Treat her like a friend that you would want to have sex with.

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Because she's the kind of girls who are more attracted to guys who don't give a damn about them, the moment she knows you are into her, she will back off and stop being into you.
You can be into her and be a challenge at the same time.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 07, 2016 9:19 am 
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How? Any tips?


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Tease, challenge, joke, speak your mind.

They'll love you for it. Women generally tend to hate supplicant behavior. Which is what most men that have an interest in them resort to. They don't hate being shown interest, they hate being shown interest by supplicant men that'll do anything to get in their pants.

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try to find common interests with her. U can ask questions about her past, U can try to speak about politics etc.

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