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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2016 9:17 am 
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So at times I can be like a total legend. Be aware of certain advanced topics from long articles I've read, done and my character and personality is dominant and confident. Then all of a sudden after a certain amount of time, I forget it all and kinda go back to the old me. The introverted, in my head, insecure, unaware what to say self. What can I do

P.S. I don't go out and game as much as I should. Being honest.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2016 2:35 pm 
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Best thing you can do is get out the house and meet people. You have to get rid of the introverted way of thinking, or else you are never going to want to go out and meet girls..

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So at times I can be like a total legend. Be aware of certain advanced topics from long articles I've read, done and my character and personality is dominant and confident. Then all of a sudden after a certain amount of time, I forget it all and kinda go back to the old me. The introverted, in my head, insecure, unaware what to say self. What can I do

P.S. I don't go out and game as much as I should. Being honest.
that's typical, change doesn't happen over night and it is not a one stop cure. you have to condition yourself, like you have to recondition or tune a piano.

you don't shower all day and expect to be clean all week

it just takes time. youll get it :) keep going!!

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So at times I can be like a total legend. Be aware of certain advanced topics from long articles I've read, done and my character and personality is dominant and confident. Then all of a sudden after a certain amount of time, I forget it all and kinda go back to the old me. The introverted, in my head, insecure, unaware what to say self. What can I do

P.S. I don't go out and game as much as I should. Being honest.
That's called inspiration. And inspiration, while powerful in the moment, is of fading nature. It has a short life span. And your problem occurs from trying to use a short life spanned method as a basis for long lasting change. Ain't gonna work.

If you forget, it simply means it's not part of who you are. In other words, you're faking it. And faking something like confidence, for example, could work out if you're actually doing things with your life that in fact do improve your confidence.

It's like ordering a pair of shoes off the internet. You may not have the money now, but your salary is due in 3 days so you'll be fine once they arrive.
The only thing you need to be aware of is doing it in realistic parameters. Buy shoes, not a lambo. Don't bite more than you can chew.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2016 8:24 am 
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So at times I can be like a total legend. Be aware of certain advanced topics from long articles I've read, done and my character and personality is dominant and confident. Then all of a sudden after a certain amount of time, I forget it all and kinda go back to the old me. The introverted, in my head, insecure, unaware what to say self. What can I do

P.S. I don't go out and game as much as I should. Being honest.
That's called inspiration. And inspiration, while powerful in the moment, is of fading nature. It has a short life span. And your problem occurs from trying to use a short life spanned method as a basis for long lasting change. Ain't gonna work.

If you forget, it simply means it's not part of who you are. In other words, you're faking it. And faking something like confidence, for example, could work out if you're actually doing things with your life that in fact do improve your confidence.

It's like ordering a pair of shoes off the internet. You may not have the money now, but your salary is due in 3 days so you'll be fine once they arrive.
The only thing you need to be aware of is doing it in realistic parameters. Buy shoes, not a lambo. Don't bite more than you can chew.
Great post man. Like every time you share some wisdom with me, I really change my perspective and DO what I'm advised. I'll put I like this... I have changed from who I was. When I was more consistent with game I once got a girls number in under 5 seconds and dated her. I once kissed a girl in under 2 minutes. I've done some amazing things. My confidence totally changed and I become relaxed and really fun.

Then depression hits, my self-esteem drops, or I stay in more. It's like I have these great moments where I peak and I obtain this power but I lose it. Maybe it's possible I have changed I just haven't used the or developed the skill that I have. It's in me, never left just has to be used. I've done this for about 4 years maybe. I know I'm not the same as when I started. I just hit these high moments then in revert and become anaylitical, serious and have no idea what to say to people. I love your response, but hopefully that adds more light to it. So the answer is, it's in me, and it's there, I just need to use it more?


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I just need to use it more?
Yes.

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