The first few months I started working on daygame was on a college campus. I was doing the "yad approach", where you literally jog past the girl a few steps, stop directly in front of her, put up your hands to sign her to stop, then open her with a compliment.

I got lots of extremely positive and encouraging responses to this. I didn't get any dates or lays, but without exception, the girls were all happy I had stopped them and happy to have a conversation with me.

Sadly, I'm not in school anymore, and now my daygame is limited to the street level. I have yet to find anywhere that is frequented by cute girls. The best I can find is the downtown street market shopping area, with a lot of open air shops at the street level. But it's still very hit and miss. I was out there three hours yesterday and I only saw one prospect, and she didn't speak English.

The thing is, from all the time I've spent in this new scene, I haven't had a single positive response. They have all reacted very negatively, as though terrified that I'm talking to them. I can attribute a lot of this to language. The college girls were more likely to have a good English level. But I think part of it is venue also.

I've modified my approach a bit; there actually isn't any space to do a Yad approach anyway, the venue is far too crowded. So I'm doing my approaches when they stop at intersections, or stop at shops to look at something. Still, results have been terrible. Zero numbers, zero positive conversations. They all exit as fast as they can.

And what did you learn? How you are doing it isn't working.

As long as a guy is respectful and courteous all is good. It's just an issue of whether she is feeling you or not.

It only gets weird if they think that you're entitled to something because they've decided to pay attention to you.

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You are most likely approaching verbally directly. Try approaching nonverbally directly (eye contact/body language/tonality/etc/as though you already know the girl), verbally indirectly (open on something other than hey you are cute I wanted to say hi....open with literally anything....such as "how do you think i did on cuttin my finger nails to day." yes anything).

You are most likely behaving in a manner that you are tryna get something from them. Try behaving in a manner that you are just breezing in to their life for a lil bit, sharing your good vibes. See what THEY have to offer YOU.

You're a man in demand. Even if you don't see it yet. Believe this, know it, and it will reflect in everything you do.