| First of all, I read the following books:
The Game
The A Game
The Power of Seduction
The Natural
The Pickup Artist
The Anti-Pickup Line
Models
The Mystery Method
The Layguide
Mode One
Rules of the Game
Pick-Up Artist secrets
Covert seduction Secrets
The 24 Steps of Seduction Revealed
The Noble Art of Seducing Women
Bang
Day-Bang
Yes, I bought and read every one of them.
I watched a ton of youtube videos on pickup artists. I didn't replicate anything in particular, but just got a general feel for how these guys acted when around women.
Once I started getting around more girls, I discovered that one out of every ten I could be friends with. When I got a friend, I'd tell her about game, I'd tell her the things I did to game her, and I'd ask her how she felt about certain things I did. I got both positive and negative feedback. They'd tell me how I did something and they thought it was great, and how I did another and they thought it was fucking stupid (but ultimately forgave the indiscretion, obviously).
I've only had ONE bad response from telling a girl about game, and her response was based on a previous experience with someone who read into game, and that guy was very misogynistic, and subscribed to a lot of serious woman hating garbage. Once I leant her a couple of books, she understood that this community isn't all bad, that it can bring out the good qualities in a shy gentleman.
Anyway.
Things I did specifically that I can note:
I downloaded the following to my phone:
Plenty of Fish
Tinder
MeetMe
OkCupid
Badoo
I use all of them. I message on all of them. I secure phone numbers on all of them. I started texting massive amounts of girls all the time. I still call girls, but not often. I know lots of people on here suggest making a phone call, and that's probably the right thing to do, but texting works for me. Texting is the norm, and it's here to stay, at least that's how I see it. But do what makes you comfortable.
With texting, I learned shitloads of text game through trial and error. For starters, you should ask questions here and there, but overall you need to just text a lot, a LOT.
I started talking to every girl about random useless shit. It's not always to get a phone number. I make conversation with girls I'm not even attracted to. I make conversation with men as well. I talk to men like I do to women I'm interested in. So yes, when I'm talking to a woman and "hitting" on her, I talk to her like a would a random strange man at Wal-Mart. This helps me a lot, because it makes me feel like I'm never actually "hitting" on a girl until I'm interested.
I changed my entire wardrobe. Do what you want, you have your own style. But I ditched every single piece of clothing I have, and will now only wear American Eagle and Abercrombie & Fitch. Not because they're "perfect" brands, but because they're easy to keep me in style, they fit, and they look good. I also bring girls clothes shopping with me so they can tell me what looks good, and what doesn't.
I get tattooed once a month. I have full sleeves now.
I quit smoking. I vape now.
I quit wearing boxers to bed. I wear pajamas now.
I quit shaving normally. I now use artisan shaving utensils, shave soap, shave brush, and artisan colognes/aftershaves.
I redecorated my entire bathroom. I keep it so clean you can eat off the floor.
I now keep tampons on my toilet with pantie-liners, and makeup wipes, in a nice little basket.
My shower is freshly stocked with girl-scent shampoo and conditioner, and body wash.
I have ten new toothbrushes at the ready.
I keep an extra comforter and bedspread in case I have a squirter.
My 16 year old car is always clean and spotless.
I've always played pool and sucked at it. I am now really fucking good at playing pool.
I drink more. But I refuse to fuck a new girl while drunk.
I wear RayBan Wayfarer sunglasses now. I used to not wear any.
I get my hair cut differently. Low taper, long on the top. I comb it very specifically.
I quit wearing so much jewelry. I love nice jewelry, but it was begging for too much attention. The tattoos do that without being pretentious.
I quit chasing girls as much. I give some chase because all girls want to be desired, but I dump them as soon as I feel like I'm wasting my time. I could give a flying fuck about some girl's need to have a texting buddy telling her how much he wants her.
Recently I was talking to a girl, sex could have happened if I lied to her and said I wanted a relationship. I recognized this and told her I just wanted a fuck buddy. She seemed on the fence but said she's not in that place yet. It just wasn't going anywhere. So instead of lying to her, telling her I'd be her emotional crutch, and getting sex that way, I was just up front with her. Told her our views don't line up, that we're looking for two different things, that she was super attractive and I didn't want to waste each other's time. Told her I was a man whore and she probably shouldn't be dealing with me anyway, that I'm just a way to pass the time. She said she'd quit bothering me. I told her she wasn't a bother. I don't delete numbers but I definitely nexted that girl.
Guess who texted me last night asking how I've been? You think that girl's ready for no strings attached sex? Definitely. And it's with 100% honesty from me.
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