Hey sup!

As stated I'll be heading back to the best coast this spring in late April for a festival I'll be speaking at. Last year I was invited and I met a girl who was pretty cool. We ended up exchanging numbers and have been talking via text here and there.

I believe she knows I am going since my we have a similar network and my name was posted on the event as speakers. I eventually will promote this awesome opportunity to my fans on my social media accounts leading closer to my departure, maybe in a couple weeks.

Thing is that she texted me the morning the smily with the crown emoticon. I haven't responded yet because I don't exactly know what to say. I have reason to believe she wants to have sex with me. She has been flirting heavily with me over text. I'm a bit passive in response but idk I'm here and she's there so yeah...

Also you all should know that I haven't got laid in about a year now. I haven't been hooking up with girls because I've been busy writing my book and doing other work related things.

How would you go about responding. I'm not sure if I wanna tell her I'm coming out her way but then see no reason not to. What do you all think and also wanted some tips on wether I should promote and market this event on my SM accounts now since the event is in April. (I know that last ones a marketing question but hey, the work comes first right?). All help greatly appreciated.

Bro what?

You're going to be speaking at an event and you don't know how to have a conversation? And should you promote and event that will expand your audience via your social media? Those are pretty much givens.

You're overthinking. You don't always have think in terms of being "gamey" ." A return of a princess emoji would've been the solid response to her emoji message. If she's reaching out on her own she's putting herself in position to do most of the talking in the beginning.

And what do you mean by "I have reason to believe she wants to have sex with me". One of the most important concepts taught on these forums is to assume attraction. Assume a woman is interested in you until approach/state intentions and you find out whether or not they are. They're guilty until proven innocent. So stop "thinking", she's initiating, she's contacting etc. invite her to the event and suggest that you to grab a drink when its over.

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Thanks man! Did you miss the part where I said I haven't slept with a woman in a year lol. I know it's totally embarrassing but I've been so strapped with work that I haven't had the opportunity to put time aside to meet women. Feel a bit awkward about it but at the same time stoked for this event I'm going to be at. I did ended up telling her I was coming and we will be linking up.

You're making an issue out of something that's really a non-issue.

You're just anxious because you didn't lay for so long.

What Eddie said, overthinking.

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I'm completely overthinking it I know! My thing is if I were to sleep with any girl that I would shoot the bullets to soon haha.

I think there are billions of fish in the sea and she is one of them. Drop the importance built up in your mind over this singular girl, it's not fair to her.

Enjoy California and while you're there, look around - you may see that there are a few female human beings around.

1. Repriortize your sex life. It makes no sense to me when guys say they can't find time to have sex. Stop sleeping so much. Stop playing video games. Stop watching porn. Go do more shit in your life where you can actually meet single, attractive women.

2. Quit worrying so much about 1 girl. Especially going out to California. To some festival. My guess is it's not in the middle of nowhere California. There's TONS of girls around.

Thanks guys! Would you exchange text with her once in a while. I don't text her at all. In fact I forget about her most of the time until she text me, then I respond accordingly. Again, over thinking this.

Just lay it low until you get there and lay it low when you're there. Sure reply to her comments but don't go overboard. There are billions of women. If it works out fine, but be working on making yourself desirable to women en masse, not just this singular one.

Update:

She text me this afternoon. Here is what she said...

Her: Do you want to stay at my place? My Airbnb isn't booked yet. I can drop the rate for whatever I want. :-p

Her: When I'm here for the festival of course

Didn't respond back yet.

I'm going with two of my friends. One of them is staying with his friend out there and will link up with us later. My other friend and I were going to be staying together since the Festival I'm speaking at will be giving me a free place for the time I'm there. Should I take her up on that offer?

I'm thinking to still get my place and just go there whenever so that my friend can just stay at my place while I'm at heres. I can go back and fourth.

Or do you suggest just hanging tight with my friend I'm going there with. He's a big boy hehe?

All help greatly appreciated
All help p

Are you serious or are you trolling man?

" Yeah. I'm in. Whats the address? "

Should be your respond.. Get the place for you boy and go stay with the chick if you want to sleep with her. If not, stay at the room and play footsies with your boy.

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This is great haha! So I responded back...

Me: Yeah sounds good, Should be there April 28th. Wait wait wait, how much you charging me?

Her: $$ Great Question

Her: What's reasonable?

Her: Depending on the dates, could be free! My goal isn't to profit off of you.


That's good what do you suggest I say next. Don't wanna blow it.

Hahaha I love it

She alluded to the possibility of you staying with her for free and you brought money into it.

Troll another forum.

That was funny though.. You almost had me going.

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