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I can tell that you haven't experienced much just by what you say. Manipulation is going to cause you to actually lose the girls that you want to keep. You can fuck a lot of girls by being a bastard but you will run into one that will stand out above the rest. Once she figures out you're a bastard that manipulated her, you'll be asking how you can make her come crawling back to you.
Ok Jack tell me please, what would you do if you were me exactly i am trying to understand you. Tell me how can i keep them in my life. Ok i wont manipulate them. how can i handle the LTR's?
First thing you have to do is realize that there are countless women out there. A lot of them won't like you but plenty of them will. All you have to do is make your approach. If they reject you, it's not the end of the world because there are enough that won't reject you.
Secondly, realize who you are and be happy with all of your experiences in life because they've built you into the man you are today. In your other post, you show that you have a bright future and a fucked up past with women...any guy that has experienced women knows that combination is going to make you hard to resist if you frame it as your personal learning experience.
Respect yourself and don't put up with any shit you don't want to. Walk away from women that don't make your life better.
Bottom line is if a girl doesn't like who you are and you are putting energy into making them like you, you've missed out on two or three girls that would be into you.
In a relationship, women will normally follow your lead as long as you can make her feel good about herself by being with you. Bright future and treating her well is all you need to do. If she acts out of line, read the line I made bold.