Hello everyone,

There a lot of history that is probably important to my story but that's the past and I'm not living there anymore, so I will let you know the short version lol.

I never had any......luck (think this should be skill) with girls when I was a teenager....in fact I was a Virginia up to the age 25. This is when I found my first girlfriend, the first person I kissed, the first person I loved......

Now this relationship has ended 2 years later, I think it's mostly my fault. I was a dick, I was still using game way too far into my relationship and I turned into a person that wasn't a man. I tried to give her everything she wanted and I tried my hardest to make this work. My best wasn't good enough for her.

I do understand that my willing to keep her was part of why i lost her.
This isn't one of those "I want my ex back" posts. I don't want her back but I can't seem to get her out of my head.

Just looking on some advise on the best ways to go about this. I'm pretty sure you're all gonna say go and get another girl but it doesn't seem that easy for me, why? I work 6 days a week and have no life other than the life I had with her.


This really isn't an "I want her back" post lol. Anyway.......hello lol

Hey buddy, I am new to this forum and this is my first answer.

I was there where you are now. You know break up sucks and from my personal experience I tell you what has worked for me. Delete all the contacts, photos and whatever that will make you miss here. Do something productive and Be the Man you always want to be. Pursue career, Do exercise, Listen songs, Watch movies. For a time being do all things that you like. It will take you a week to get over her completely.

Always remember you are great man. you deserve better girl in your life and just go for it. Love will find a way. First of all just recover from this break up. Don't go for rebound relationship, It works temporary Not in a long run.

Go out ,hang out with your friends. Be social. Keep yourself occupied. Life is beautiful so don't waste it for a Ex, Y or Z.

Lastly, You can't hold onto what is not yours. Manipulation may work in short term to tweak someone's mind. Dont do that , I got my ex back and again I lost her. Now I don't give a fuck to anyone who doesn't understand me completely or who takes things for granted.

Get best out of this life buddy. Get into game once you feel better and start your new life. My best wishes are with you. Hope you like this answer since i like to give opinion and this is the first time i wrote in this forum : ) Have a wonderful day.