Hi, just a quick introduction, im 21yo, had a 3 toxic relationships in the past, decided its finally time to change some things and meet beautiful women, i want to have as much first dates as possible to practice my game and conversation skills.

Anyway, went out to the club, met a girl, asked for the number and instead she was willing to give me facebook so i settled on that (yes, i know that was a mistake and i should have persuaded her to give me the number, live and learn).

We went on a date to a creperie (place where they make pancakes and sh*t) and i had a hard time opening her up, we had a few of awkard silences. I also found out she was in 2years relationship and just broke up couple of months ago and i was her first date with stranger ever.

I was being playful, sarcastic and teased her most of the time, it seemed like we had a good time. When we parted ways, i made most awkard statement ever: "You know I am going to kiss you now" and the SPAM suddenly became awkard, she said something like no, no i dont want bla bla and i just gave her a hug (sucks yea)

A few questions:
After the creperie i wanted to take a walk and i didnt know where to go, she noticed that and started teasing me, i lost my frame and became irritated, what exactly should i do when she starts teasing me and testing me all the fcking time?
We had some kino, she started touching me incidentally as i was her, i tried to escalate that to a purposely touching but i dont know how, also what the f*ck should i do when i go in for the kiss? Should i just go for it?
Is it even smart to take a walk with the girl on the first date?

Oh and btw, it was a daytime date, thanks for all the help, cya

I don't know man. . . Sounds like for a first date at 21 and three shitty relationships before, you did pretty good.

I mean, you didn't get laid. You didn't do great. But look at the positives. You were both teasing back and forth. Had a pretty good time. Took a walk together. Sounds like it was kinda fun.

Like I said, it could have gone better with more game and skill, but overall I think you did pretty good.

For your questions:

She was teasing you about not knowing where to go. First off, don't ever get irritated over those things. It's a sign of weakness, honestly.

Instead, I would have laughed and said "Yeah I'm just wandering aimlessly right now, I like walks and talks. Don't you?"

Escalation of touching. I'm not gonna lie I'm bad with doing this methodically, I do a lot of touching naturally, so I don't have a "method" to it. Someone else on here can help you there. Sorry.

There's a lot of reading for the kiss close. Just find what you think will work for you. I hardly ever announce a kiss. I do it occasionally but not often. When I go in for a kiss, I do it very naturally. Lock eyes, get close, grab the back of her neck, and kiss. I've never been turned down for a kiss.

Of course walking is good. It's nice because it gives an opportunity to do something basic and menial while talking and building comfort. Me, personally, I prefer to aimlessly drive around. Like at a coffee date. I quickly get bored at coffee shops and it shows. So I'll say "Lets go driving around." We go driving, we talk. After a while I'll pull into a parking lot, pull my seat back, drink my coffee and lean against my window while talking to her. Build more comfort, touch her leg, then go in for a quick makeout session. Pull away, start driving again, and talking.

Again, I think you did really good. Polish the skills you already have.

I'm sorry but I really don't understand the concept of "daytime date". That's not a date, it's a casual hangout. It's impersonal. You're setting yourself up for fighting and uphill battle, how is it you are confused by losing?

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Thanks for feedback horologist, i need to learn alot more.

I guess I like the challenge.

But in all seriousness, you're right, she has a job till 3pm and she's from another town, so i couldnt arrange a nighttime date because she would wait like 3 or 4 hours, so i arranged daytime date.

Fair enough, but then do you think this girl would have been worth the hassle? Her situation wouldn't have changed.

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I don't know, I have just started with this stuff. You need to look at it from my perspective man, you were noob once too. I just want alot of practice with bunch of different girls.

Also, she reached out to me and sent a text, i don't know if i should next her because she rejected my kiss close, i mean, are you experts nexting girls who reject f*ck closes?

It's fine to practice, however things like distance should be something you take into account, for future reference. You may not want to invest time in a girl that lives 20 miles away. Fuck buddies nor relationships won't really flourish with distance. You'd be better off investing in someone close to you. You still get to practice but it may actually lead somewhere too.

Depends on what she said. I don't "next" anyone unless I feel like I'm wasting my time.

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