Hello fellow soldiers of the same battle,

Recently i've been dating this girl who I enjoy, however she didnt want me as much as I wanted her.
I had to become more distant and sometimes I just dissapear for 3 days no social media no nothing.
Not really seeing other girls but I'm just a busy guy.

So a few days ago I asked her out she said she promised to go to a bday party of a dude friends of her.
She asked me I minded and I she should go, my shit test radar went off so I said okay, yea sure have fun. Kept a real strong frame

Then I dissapeared again 3 hours later she called me 3 times and send me a text where I was.
I didnt respond and didnt show a sing of life till the next evening while I still ignored her.

Anyway she than asked me why I was ignoring her and she asked if I was with an other girl.
She said she missed me and was thinking bout me all night and waiting by the phone till i would call her.
She didnt even go to the party. Anyway she really wanted to know what I did and with who I was while telling me she missed me and shes gonne make next time special.

My question now is, I wasnt with an other girl should I tell her that when I see her?
Or wtf should I say for now I said, I'm not gonne answer that to let her mind play tricks on her longer and also to no give myself away easy. (I still think I shoulda said I tell you when I see you)

Reminder that she wants me now but shes only now realizing this.

Beautiful. A tear came to my eye.
Do you feel you owe her something?

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No but thats not the point should I keep her guessing should I tell her the truth I dont know whats the best play here
After all she played hard to get untill this point so I definetly didnt forget but still i'm an honest dude.

A simple "I was just busy." Is all you need to say.

She needs to wonder. Let her.

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Well she will ask me busy with what, she was alrdy askin me who was she and who did i fuck this and that lol. Telling me I had to go to the docter and check for diseases and stuff but she said this to get me to tell her I didn't have sex.

I'd just tell her to stop fishing for information.

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Thx your a boss, read a lot of good posts from you.

Tell her to stop being so needy.

im going to a spa tomorow with her if I tell her that what would her reaction be? I wanne get me some pussy bro

If she's very attractive she won't have heard it before and it implies you're a high value man with options. It can backfire with...how shall I put it....."challenging" women but it certainly marks you out from other men. If you have all your eggs in one basket with this girl then it's a risk to be sure and she may blow off but they usually get back in touch and you have the silence game down pat anyway judging from your post.

Like I say, up to you but if she starts playing you then frame it as neediness on her behalf.

Yea I understand but this chick is not a 9 or 10 and had uber highwalls I had to climb coz shes been with an unloyal dude for 2 years then she found out he was married LOL yea wtf i know.

So after finaly climbin this wall I just want my deserved reward tomorow in the spa :d
Don't think I will risk anything just wanne come up with a good high value excuse that I was doin.

'spoiling and pampering my harem'

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