"i enjoy talking to you and think we get along great. lets try it, if not that cool' Never say shit like "If not that's OK/that's cool/etc. This subconsciously gives the woman the idea you've been in this situation before. Just assume she enjoys your company as well. Don't tell her you like being around her. That doesn't create attraction within a woman.
'i also think we get along great but not looking for anything serious. id love to hang as friends i enjoy spending time with u blah blah' She just wants to have fun. She doesn't want a clingy guy. No drama. Again, she wants to have good times.
"i have enough friends. see you later' Yeah. She's done now. This is a pouty-like statement. And if you don't want anything to do with her because she just wants to be friends then there's no loss there.
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hey all 1st post here.
Had 3 dates with this girl. wasn't until 3rd time that I finally k-closed (i know i know, but i was sick).
day3 went great and was day before vday. Next 2 days text her with some banter then try to arrange another meet.
Then she starts with the short abrupt texts And says shes busy all week. So not wanting to waste my time i text her "i enjoy talking to you and think we get along great. lets try it, if not that cool'.. she responds 'i also think we get along great but not looking for anything serious. id love to hang as friends i enjoy spending time with u blah blah'.. I reply "i have enough friends. see you later'
she obviously doesn't reply to that.. and 4 days later deletes me on all forms of social media.
Where to go from here.. is it lost cause?
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