traffic school girl



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 17 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions

Unanswered topics | Active topics | New posts | Your posts





  Print view Previous topic | Next topic 
Author Message
123abc
 Post subject: traffic school girl
PostPosted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 10:41 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:22 pm
Posts: 7
Location: Orange, CA
so i met this girl this past saturday at traffic school.... we have been texting and myspace chatting monday/ tuesday, the text/comment are always flirty , but i am the one that keeps on having to initiate the text messages, i dont mind but i dont want to come across as desperate or stalker status... and we have plans to hang on thurs (tomoorrow) night... should i call jus call her or wait to see if she hits me up????
Top
   
Reply with quote  
Medic
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 10:44 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot
User avatar

Joined: Fri Dec 14, 2007 12:04 am
Posts: 434
Location: New York
I say hold out, let her invest some time and effort.

_________________
Life is a game. Win.
Top
   
Reply with quote  
L.A. Tripp
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 10:48 pm 
If you've ALREADY got plans set, don't be clingy or needy and "ask her if she's still good with the plans". Either she's good or she's gonna flake. You contacting her again will increase the chances of her flaking because you won't come across as confident. Just chill.
Top
   
Reply with quote  
123abc
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 4:09 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:22 pm
Posts: 7
Location: Orange, CA
the plans werent a actual planned event, it was more we are gonna hang on thurs. does that make a difference on the way i should approach this... or should i ignore her completely if she doesnt hit me up at all even tomorrow?
Top
   
Reply with quote  
L.A. Tripp
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 7:37 am 
Ok, details are what I need. If there is a time and place set, it's done. If not, it depends. What exactly has been set?
Top
   
Reply with quote  
123abc
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 8:01 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:22 pm
Posts: 7
Location: Orange, CA
no time or place... we were gonna hang on saturday night, but she had to go "study", but she made a point to say that she wasnt blowing me off and wanted to hang later in the week, so than somehow when we were talking on the phone sat night, she told me she was free thursday to hang out, and i told her that was fine
Top
   
Reply with quote  
L.A. Tripp
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 8:05 am 
Quote:
no time or place... we were gonna hang on saturday night, but she had to go "study", but she made a point to say that she wasnt blowing me off and wanted to hang later in the week, so than somehow when we were talking on the phone sat night, she told me she was free thursday to hang out, and i told her that was fine
Oooookkkk, ic.

Alright, text her tomorrow with a short, to the point text telling her when and where. If she doesn't respond, assume it's done. If she flakes, move on. If she does respond, calibrate according to what she says.

FYI, for future reference, you already gave her control with "I told her that was fine".

But for now, handle it this way.
Top
   
Reply with quote  
123abc
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 8:08 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:22 pm
Posts: 7
Location: Orange, CA
alright thanks a bunch man, i jus discovered all this PUA stuff today haha

oh and should i pick her up or meet her.... or is this more of a calibration thing
Top
   
Reply with quote  
Tatty
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 3:30 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Wed Mar 05, 2008 11:02 pm
Posts: 9
i would say meet her, just say when and where (like a coffee place) with out asking if that would suit her. make it so ur basicaly "im doing this tomorrow so im going to let you tag along"
Top
   
Reply with quote  
L.A. Tripp
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 3:32 pm 
Quote:
alright thanks a bunch man, i jus discovered all this PUA stuff today haha

oh and should i pick her up or meet her.... or is this more of a calibration thing
Tell her to meet you at the destination.

Personally, I don't go to a girl right off the bat. What I have to offer to a girl is worth her coming to me.

Since you're just starting with PUA, you need to find a copy of the Venusian Arts Handbook and read it. Also, pick up a copy of Rules Of The Game and read that. Those two books will answer a LOT of your questions.
Top
   
Reply with quote  
123abc
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 8:15 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:22 pm
Posts: 7
Location: Orange, CA
aight thanks again, i am already 80 pages in the venusian arts handbook and ill look for the other one l8r
Top
   
Reply with quote  
L.A. Tripp
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 8:20 pm 
Quote:
aight thanks again, i am already 80 pages in the venusian arts handbook and ill look for the other one l8r
Excellent.
Top
   
Reply with quote  
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  Page 1 of 1
  [ 12 posts ] 

Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions

All times are UTC

You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link