Now I've knownnthis girl for most of her life. I'm 26 she's 19. The whole situation was precipitated by my girlfriend. She doesn't like this girl so I've spoken to her less and less over the last six months. Her stepfather and mother are good friends. To begin, I saw her a couple of times over the last six months each time she would sob something obnoxious and I would ignore her completely. Wouldn't even look in her direction. Each time she would call her mother and cry about it. So every time I would go over her moms house she would ask if I was mad at her daughter because she felt hurt that ignored her. It all culminated to the point that my girlfriend messaged her about it twice. Again she cried ringer mother. So I saw her out at a bar after it happened and she tried ringer my attention by stepping wherever I stepped. I again didn't say a word and pushed her out of my way. She called her mom crying hysterically at 130 and 4 in the morning. I received 3 or 4 Tex message from her mother the next morning telling me how upset and hurt she is about it. So I went over there to tell her I wasn't mad at her I'm just not going to acknowledge any childish behavior. She didn't like that answer and stormed out. The next week, since I'm still good friends with the family decided to go to her apartment to just tell her to stop bothering her mother and act normally when she sees me so people don't get the wrong idea. She went into an emotional tailspin. Cried for 30 minutes straight. Wants things to contact to the way they were before. Gets pissed when it'll her not to act the way she does when people see me. She starts crying and sobbing about me not talking to her anymore. It went on and on so I left I knew she was still mad. So the next week I decide fuck it I'll just tell her one last time that I'm not mad to end this production. So I go to see her at her moms house while her mom is there and tell her the same things I told her the week before. I called her out about having a crush on me she denied it. And was pretty mad about me saying I don't want people getting the wrong idea. She kept contradicting herself when she said she was wasn't upset then I brought her mother over to tell her what she texted me and she conceded she was upset and hurt all because I ignored her three times. I've been dealing with this situation for a couple weeks now. I know this girl has a crush on me and I'm just tired the bullshit. I just want to trap her into admitting it after all the drama she caused. Any ideas on this girl and what to do.

You're acting like an ass OP. Don't try to make her admit something to make yourself feel better. She's immature... You should be acting like an adult and not childishly ignoring her even if your girlfriend doesn't like her. Control your reactions to her and quit trying to control hers.

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I have. I don't tolerate acting like a child when someone sees me in public. I ignore that behavior. She's causing issues between her family and I.

An evaluation/judgment of what she's doing. And what is it your concern? She's not causing anything, its more you being co-dependent and trying to control another person's behavior, and then getting frustrated when you discover its not working. You're the one creating the issue.

How about taking some personal accountability and moving on if you're so dismayed by her behavior? There's an idea.

I've tried. All I've done is ignore her. No reason to go into an emotional tailspin and cause problems between her family and myself. Since I'm close with the family.

You're making it an issue.

In what way?

You are the problem. You know how she acts around you. You know how she reacts to you. You keep acting the same same way. Children pout and adults figure things out. You guys are both pouting because you aren't getting your way. Be an adult and figure it out.

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Wait...so you ignore a chick, who your friends with her family...because your gf doesnt like her?

Childish is your gf for being so petty and bringing you into it
Childish is you for ignoring a teenager who youve known most her life for a gf
Childish is her family for not telling you to fuck off for disrespecting their child

Man up. Dont treat someone like shit because your gf has a problem with them.

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

Also, what neo said. Times 100.

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Relax guy. No I ignored her because she was being obnoxious yelling and screaming when she saw in public. So unjust didn't panther any mind. The third time she was preventing me from leaving the bar so I pushed her out of my way. I didn't think she would have a meltdown over it.

You don't get it do you?

WHY is she acting like this? Because YOU'RE acting like an ass because YOUR gf has a problem with a TEENAGER you've known YOUR entire life.

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You're getting pretty emotional over it. Ignoring someone three times is hardly acting it's the non acting.

A'right. I tried.

Good luck.

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So, you are sexually attracted to this little girl, and your doing this big showy false display the public eye, for the benefit of your GF not getting pissy, and you risk losing her.

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