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1. I never said anything about the majority of your posts, did I?
2. I was asking what people see in you. I wasn't asking you to come and aggressively qualify yourself.
3. Yes, a lot of the advice that I give could be stripped back to some kind of YouTube video from somewhere. Want to know why? Because that's where I learned from and it just happens to be what my experience has shown to be effective; books and videos along with the tiny amount of natural "skill" that I had. I teach maths to my little brother, and most of what I teach is from text books. He's still doing a lot better than he ever was before. To think that it shows a lack of experience just because I didn't invent all of it is, well, just wrong. Let's look at 2 guys from this forum; Dragula and RC. Both of them undeniably know what they're talking about, both give some brilliant advice... yet both admit that most of their material is from Models or 60YOC
4. You accuse me of playing the victim and basically indirectly attacking you or whatever... could I not quote you doing the exact same shit to me? But I don't take it personally. I don't even take it as a reflection of how you feel about me
5. The general message that you're communicating is "How dare you question the validity of my advice!" even though I didn't. I asked what people see in you. I didn't say you're usually wrong? To me your advice is generally just a better worded version of "just get your shit together and women will like you" which is undoubtedly right, but will make no sense to the majority of new guys because it's so vague... so knowing this, I questioned what people see in you. If you've got a problem with that then your ego is getting in your way.
6. Again, just to get the message across properly: I did not say that I disagree with most (if any) of your posts. I asked what people see in them, because I think they're vague and basically what everybody else is saying "Get your shit together, focus on you, don't have any kind of outcome in mind" but nothing about HOW to do this. I didn't realise there would be such a problem with me asking a simple question, or I'd never have asked it.
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Again lol JD, come on. I feel like I’m talking to a woman. And that’s not a slight against your manhood, but how I genuinely feel because you won’t own your shit. You constantly make side comments when I post, and when I come at you directly on one, you act like it was a simple question.
3. Since you want to bring Dragula and RC, I will say this. If either of them can only give advice that was from some book, I’d say they were full of it to. If they give advice based solely on what they read or heard..its bad advice. Regurgitating advice you haven’t tried is just a bad practice for the community. Its how the same bs keeps getting recirculated. Currently, RC and Drag don’t post like that. You do. I’ve never praised my posts or called myself one of the great posters here. You have. And I still didnt come and question you because that would be disrespectful and negative.
4. I directly addressed you. Big difference. I don’t say something negative abt you in a smart way, and then when you disrespect me back, act like I wasn’t doing what I did and repeatedly do. I don’t go say “what do people see in Majick?” and when he calls me a pussy for my comment, act like my comment was just positive to him. And then say he’s qualifying himself when he shits on me back. I’ve seen posts where you yourself are grouping the great posters and you throw your name in there, I don’t come in there and say “I don’t get why JD thinks he’s great.” And if I did, I would be man enough to own that yeah, I’m talking shit about you in a bitchy way.
5. You know, when I first read your comment I was like…hmm…maybe I’m vague...good feedback. Then I thought about it….I write so much analogies, examples, go through logical roads with arguments, talking about thoughts running through a girl’s mind. In many threads I think I write TOO much to explain a point. You saying vagueness is your issue, is kinda weird, granted that there are many posters who you’d call great, who write much much more vaguely than I do.
6. For the record, I don’t think I’m some great poster. I write hella disjointed, bad English, miss a point in an argument. I don’t even know the pride in being a “great poster” on a PU forum.
Look, I’ll talk to you man to man. Own your shit. When you keep talking shit in this and other threads, just say hey I was talking shit I don’t like your posts. I don’t know if its “frame control” or just lack of manhood, but see how when I talked shit I say it to you and whatever you say in response is not going to be harsh because Ive already come back at you? As Ive told you before I don’t like this childish shit of I’ll disrespect you then act like it was a question. Your shots started when I called you sensitive in your post. And I watched you make side comments abt “neo” for a while and just laughed. Just keep it 100% and own what you say.
You flip flop on what your issue is like a child. First it's I neg and insult people. Then it's you agree with my shit, but I'm vague and give the typical advice. In another thread you stated, you always disagree with what I say. Which is it man?! Lol. What next....its my font that bothers you? When I say its like I'm talking to a chick, its because I'm not used to grown men changing what they say that much. So you flip flop, say smart comments and then pretend like "oh I was just asking a question." I don't know Corey wayne or these other guys, but are they not teaching you guys how to be men? Are they teaching be honest with women, but lie and be wishy washy everywhere else?
I'm not trying to neg you. Who the hell thinks of negs when someone tells them directly they think what you do is wrong? I'm directly telling you this so you can cut those childish tendencies. If you say something smart, not just once but multiple times and get called out for it, just own it. This is all related to the OP's topic, because PU isnt teaching many of you just how to be normal adults. Or even normal men. Its teaching you to bang chicks and be a boy still. I sincerely, no neg, no trying to play you or anything...I sincerly hope you take my words seriously and recognize those boyish tendencies you have. Dont flip flop. If you have an issue, say it directly and clearly, without contradicting yourself. When you talk shit, just own it.
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