Bold=truth.

Get hobbies, focus on work, focus on friends etc. The mindset of "I'm going to ignore her text to make her want me more" and then sitting around doing nothing all night is a loser mindset. Instead it should be you not having a lot of freetime. I remind my girlfriend all the time that I'm too busy at work to text and chat. I've even sent her messages like "I'm swamped up here, hmu if someone dies, otherwise I'll text you to make plans later. Love ya" As well as I've just ignored texts until I got out of work or even til I've gotten home and relaxed for a bit. Putting more effort in to work and other things will also make you appreciate the time that you spend with her more as well as make her appreciate the time she gets with you way more.

My other advice is don't make these changes swiftly and every once in a while knock yourself on the head and look at this with a realistic view. You have a hot GF who is submissive in the sack and as far as I can tell, doesn't really cause problems for you in any way other than being a little dominant outside of the bedroom. Don't take this tiny little problem and fuck up the entire relationship by trying to make drastic changes over night. Start small by taking charge on all minor decisions, ask her for small favors more often etc. And every level as you see her falling in to her role in the relationship you can progress.

Bro..

You can't just do a random complete 180 in your relationship and expect to not set off alarm that are likely to do more damage to your relationship than just maintaining what you have.

My question to you is though.. Why the sudden change? Whats been taking place in the relationship that would make you feel like you should pull back a little bit? Is she losing interest? The way I'm reading it, it sounds to be like you're probably just overthinking a little bit.

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