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Alright, so my girlfriend (HB10)of only a few days now (lmao stfu) has an ex boyfriend who's in the NBA. They just broke up last year, but remained friends. I'm jealous as fuck actually, because even though I'm a promising prospect and I'm sure my day in the majors will come eventually, my baseball career is clearly nothing like his basketball career yet. Well anyway, he's gonna be in town in a few days, and she was gonna hang out with him, but I told her no. Tbh, I'm just insecure as hell because I'm scared she likes him more than me (even though I'm better than him in every way except our athletic careers). Was I being childish to tell her that she couldn't hang out with him, or was it appropriate? Let me know how you think I should've handled it, and how I should consider to handle it going forward. Thanks so much.
And no, I won't reveal her, her ex's, or my identity to you guys. Sorry hahahaha
You were being childish because of your reasoning, but I would've done the same thing. Not out of insecurity, but off of the principle that going out with the guy is not conducive for the progression of our relationship. And ex boyfriend is almost always going to flirt and shoot his shot; why put yourself in an unnecessary position that could potential have a negative impact on our relationship.
But even though, then women I tend to choose are not women I even have to have these conversations with. They already get it.
P.S. stop deleting post. They can help others.
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