How is any girl (woman) any different (eventually) from another? I have yet to find any difference in one women from another. They consistently lack integrity and lack interest in integrity, they lack rationality and lack interest in rationality and lack accountability and lack interest in accountability. Unless they are mannish, they are all hot and bring amazing value or they dont, and all require tremendous amount of game to keep both of us satsfied. I love women but they are work and that seems like it is the same no matter who I am with. Unless one gets some submissive mail order slave from another country who has the identity of a piece of tofu.

I know my current GF is nuts half the time and I am inclined to take the path of least resistance and let her go her merry way but I suspect the next beautiful high quality female will be just as squirrely eventually when presented with any kind of accountability. Am I just a cynical doormat or am I calling it right?

My current GF is texting/asking me what we are doing for Valentines day (meaning what am I going to do for her for Valentines Day, e.g fancy expensive restaurant) and she has not earned Ground Hogs day SPAM let alone Valentines Day anything and she is oblivious to that. But I just am not convinced that any beautiful high quality woman would be any different. I will probably share this post with her and she won't get it, it will be greek to her.

Ok , well this post seems sort of troll with this opening statement - therefore I won't spend much time on it.

Not sure how you don't see differences in women other than not really have seen enough, or your messing with the wrong type. Sounds like you're pursuing/targeting very loose/promiscuous women ... which will make you believe this.

There are many types of girls; those that won't have sex till marriage and those that will sleep with you the same night - and of course everything in-between.

Jeez. "Troll"? Really? What is this middle school addiction *some* comment section people have with labelling others as a "troll" or trolling? I guess this approach makes intellectual life easier. Try thinking for yourself sometime. I expressed my point of view as straight up as I could. The thinking does not match your experience? well just say so like a considerate person. I am new here and maybe I am out of line but there it is.

AND I am not "pursuing/targeting very loose/promiscuous women". I said nothing about sex or lack of loyalty being an issue or a concern for me and it is not. The issue for me is substandard behaviour and attitudes and crap that I would not tolerate if I did not perceive that it was standard unavoidable nonsense that goeswith most women. I know I am tolerating it but have little reservation to saying "ciao" to this woman or any woman. There are 3 billion+ women after all.

Have you ever thought that the problem may actually be you?

Your girlfriend asked what you two were going to do for Valentine's Day and your thinking took it to how expensive it was going to be for you and how she doesn't deserve it. You thought enough of her to commit to a relationship but not enough of her to go out with her on the relationship holiday? If you treat the women in your life with this kind of selfishness, I can see why you are having the same issues with women repeatedly.

I don't know you but from what you write, this describes you pretty much as I see it now: BTW...what is it that you consider high quality?

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High quality? Good Q. I consider every living human to be high quality. I now regret using the term in the first place.

Yes I might be the problem, that is possible/probable. I was just curious if any other guys saw women as all the same and all the rest of the question I expressed. i keep all my promises in this relationship, she keeps almost none. That kind of thing is important to me and appears to have no importance to her. I am thinking all women are like this so yeh end this one and then face it again in the next.

I don't know you but from what you write, this describes you pretty much as I see it now: How so specifically?

You're not holding yourself accountable for the role that you play with the women in your life. Your notion that all women are the same is irrational. By choosing a woman to be your girlfriend and then wanting to treat her less than that lacks integrity.

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Can't argue with two of those points. You have elevated my perspective. Thanks.

And I am still asking if any others see all women as being the same in the ways I am asking about and do not consider that to be irrational in any way.

Damn jack... You're logic was on point

Yeah op you're dating the wrong kind of women. You are irrational and not holding yourself accountable. And if your gf is half nuts and selfish.. How is that quality? What do you consider quality?

Perhaps. Yes. I have found most women to be "half nuts and selfish". Maybe it is a blind spot of mine and that is the kind of women I go for every time. I just wondered if men here had any experience with women being any different than that consistently. I admit I might just be off, no argument here.

I also think of Jack Nicholsen's line in the film "As Good As It Gets"

Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.

I am leaving this post at that. Thanks for the replies masterm1ne, neo87 and JackZero I have found this site incredibly valuable in the past as a reader, and directed many male friends here. I will not be posting again but will continue to read.

Lol come on man... You dodge and dance around a simple question. What do you consider high quality or in other words a good woman? If I had asked a chick that and gotten your all humans are high quality simple answer, I'd luck at her as nuts too. You know what women don't have yet you can say anything about what a quality woman is for you? And if you believe high quality is not what youve found, maybe you should find it? Ironically your reasoning and responses are more irrational than most chick's. And that's not me trying to bash you. Just confused on why you'd condemn the chick's for doing the same things you do.

Ok thanks. AND I am done and have no inclination to explain myself to you or anyone or convince you of anything. I expressed exactly what I wanted to express exactly how I wanted to express it. And I appreciate that you have opinions of your own about that and it occurs to you in your world as " dodge and dance". Ok.

Thought no poster, ever. As true as it may well be.

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Dude.. I never asked you to convince me of anything. I have no idea what you'd be convincing me of. I followed up Jacks question on what's a quality girl to you and your response is to get defensive like someone is asking you to prove your cock is 12 inches. So when someone asks you to explain something it's a big deal? My bad.. We shouldn't ask you any questions. Cause you take straight questions as some kinda big deal