So I met this chick while I was out shopping one day she was leaving out of Sephora as I was passing by I gave her a quick compliment on her style. She turned back with a smile and thanked me then we ended up kicking it off. We had close to a 30 minute conversation where we connected on different levels like working out, reading motivational material, etc. We exchanged information I've had a day two with her were she came over my place for a chat. In a conversation prior to her coming over to my place she mentioned workin on her vision board so I encouraged her to bring it over to my place. I have to note this though the time I asked her to come over to my place I got a bit of pushback from her, after I suggested her coming over she text me back saying, "thanks for inviting me to your place but I would like to propose other options." Then she suggested going out to a movie, or fucking riding a roller coaster. We can ride a roller coaster Ight bitch (in my mind). I Texted her back asking what was wrong with coming to my place then she replied that nothing was wrong so she came over. But I'm like why the push back, I know this was the first date but damn. I guess my place was kind of pushy but if a joint DTF she wouldn't flinch at coming through your spot right? One thing I noticed about this chick she can text for days but it's really hard getting her to commit to a phone conversation. Like she acts like she's to worthy for a phone conversation in my opinion. Everytime I ask her can I call she gives some fucking dumb ass excuse... Fuck that shit dude I hate texting. Plus I've been told by numerous girls that I have a sexy voice. So I like to use that to my advantage. So anyhow this chick is kind of a eccentric soul, she is really goofy but it's cute, but at the same time she has a level of sternness about her. I will say she down to earth and doesn't mind loosing up and goofing off with me. She came over my place this past Sunday. Before she left I mentioned catching a movie on Wednesday which is today. She agreed so shes coming out with me tonight to see a movie basically. Dude this time I would like to get lucky with her. I've been flirting with her over text she's been telling me things like oh she thinks I'm funny and kind of flirting back at me when I flirt with me but just a little bit nothing too involved. So any suggestions on how I could get it on? I think she has a lot of sexual energy but I really can't tell and I don't want to jump the gun. She seems like the freaky type if we were to get to that level. Again there has been some IOI's but nothing crucial.

I wouldn't invite a chick I just met to my place unless I met her at a club or if we were extremely sexual during our first meet. Its way too forward in my eyes and that will just cause the girl to ask herself a million questions and flake last minute (kudos to you for not having her flake).

As far as the phone call goes, most people these days prefer texting. Especially if she's younger or lives with other and doesn't want them to hear her flirting with a guy. If you want to so badly why don't you just call her? Don't ask her beforehand if she can take a call. Most likely she'll answer but if she doesn't, just leave it at that and text her a day later.

I love movie dates. I feel like more often than not I end up getting laid that night. This isn't a guide by any means, but this is just what I like to do when I take a girl to a movie. First I pick the spot. I like theaters attached to a mall. Gives a great way to walk around before the flick starts and build sexual tension. Hold her hand, flirt with her a lot, touch a lot, go window shopping. Girls love this. Then find a bench to chill on. Flirt more then go for a kiss. Make out if you want to. If she's a little wild bring some booze for the movie (be sure to pick a flick that's not too busy). Last movie date I brought a HUGE bottle of wine. Once you get in the theater open it up and drink with her. Also pick a theater with love seats and put up the hand rest between you. Make that the very first thing you do when you sit at the theater. Continue the flirty vibe and get her closer to you. Once you're both all boozed up (again, not a guide just what I like to do that works for me), find an opportunity to make out with her. Get her so horny and turned on at this point. If you do everything right, she'll be begging to come back to your place. But have an excuse to as well ("OMG There this _______ that I have to show you! You'd love it!"). That way she doesn't seem like a whore when she agrees to come back. From then show her a funny video or whatever it is you wanted to show her. Make sure its something you can show her on your bed or a comfortable couch. The rest should write itself.

So last night was cool, I texted her during the day just to warm up the dialog between us a bit. When I texted her I didn't even mention the date just sent a couple of flirty text. So we finally met up around 6:30. She hopped in my car, her first time riding along with me might I add. On our way to the movies I had some Chris Brown playing (Royalty Album), too sexual, bit to direct so I changed up the game. I played this new artists call Conrad Sewell, immediately she was feeling these tunes, his new album made for a great mix of action and passion tracks. Doing this time while we were rocking out in my car, dancing in our seats I grabbed her hand almost as if we were on the dance floor. Dude she freaking loved it! Dancing, smiling, laughing it was a cool situation, set the mood off right! This made for great kino too. When we got to the theater I kept the kino going by holding my arm out giving her the indication that I wanted her on my arms. So she grabbed my arm as we walked toward the theatre.

Highlights while watching the movie, the movie was a straight chick flick by the way. It took her through so many emotions... Don't know if this was a good thing or bad thing. During the movie I invited her to grab my arm she did it was cool. During the movie we flirted here and there. Whatever... After the movie we went to a nearby bar where we was suppose to grab food and drinks. Long story short we grabbed some drinks and danced a little. We had a long conversation where I think I could have gotten way more sexual and sealed the deal. Instead I talked about fucking bullshit, normal small talk "get to know my family type shit." I embedded the conversation with spikes and shit like that but damn dude! In my opinion I blew it. During the conversation we were sitting in a booth I put my arms around her waste and gripped her thighs as we talked. That went well on and off (me with my arms around her waist rubbing her thighs) for like 30-45mins or so. Until she started squirming back and forth and said she was uncomfortable. So i kept my fucking hands to myself and carried on the conversation. Took her back home and bam...

She texted me after the date saying that she had a nice time and such. I texted her today with a video of me getting down in the car to the song we had such a great time getting down to on the way to the movies. She liked it, and sent me back a video of her getting down in her car to some Adele. I then sent her a text asking her if I could tell her a secret. My secret to her was me telling her I so wanted to Kiss her. Just to change things up a bit. I only did this because I thought that our relationship wasn't going anywhere sexual so I made the move and text. Dialog below:

(Chick sends me a video of her dancing in her car to some Adele with red lipstick, red dress, with red flower in her hair)

Me: All of a sudden Red is my favorite color
Me: Can I tell you a secret?

Her: It's a bomb color . Yee sure thing what up ?

Me: I so wanted to kiss you last night...

Her: Really after kicking me to the curb and telling me you could not hang out with me (We had this big kick joke going during the date about me kicking her to the curb, then she replied that she would kick me to the curb too if the movie wasn't good or something like that)

Me: Hold on you kicked me to the curb too. Awwww did I hurt your feelings?

Her: Just giving you a hard time .I did not get what you meant when you said you can't hang out with me ? just finishing climbing at the Rock gym.how are you

Me: Lol com'mon take it easy on me. I said that because i feel like we would have a nice connection based on the things I'm learning about you it'll be like sparking a fire oh sweet how was it!? Just leavin class

So thoughts?

Christ I literally facepalmed reading this. What the fuck man?

She came to your house, then you went on a separate occasion for movies and drinks and instead of making a move literally whenever, you chose to pull shit like this over text after it all?

What do you think goes through her head when she accepts coming over to your place? By accepting your invite she intrinsically accepts that something might happen. Not that it will, but that she's curious/intrigued/interested in the possibility of might.

That was a bad text exchange. You basically told her how you feel. I'm somewhat surprised she replied to that.

Anyway, you better get this girl on another date, quick, and actually get physical with her. Rubbing her thigh for 45 minutes (just the though of that makes me uncomfortable) doesn't qualify as physical.
Kiss her already. Stop talking, start doing.

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Well we are up for another date. Every since I sent her that text about wanting to kiss her we've been chatting on a daily basis. So this Sunday we are scheduled to go to a kick boxing class at the UFC gym blocks away from where we live. Sidenote: this chick lives like 5mins down the road from me. So I was thinking after the gym maybe I could make an excuse to get over to her place. In previous text she told me that she was excited to go on this date to the gym. She has a cat named "Curious," so I thought it would be Clever to tell her after the workout that I am curious to meet "Curious," maybe that will be the perfect excuse to go up to her place after. Then I could bullshit for a while then I could mention giving her a massage or mention that I could use one but convince her to let me give her one. Get touchy then start to pleasure her with the massage then sneak my kiss in then BAM. Thoughts?