Met a girl at the bar from offline. Hit it off and we're both very open about sexual talk and what we like. Made out. Didn't need to so any CnF bullshit. She's 25 so no games. She said she wants to have sex with me but she can't tonight. Even talked about what it would be like when we did. I persisted a little bit backed off. She has a kid at home and her Dad was texting her and she had to go home. (Probably BS). She lives with rents.

We set up a meet at the end of the night for my place in two days. She acknowledged that there's no point of doing any further dates or anything until we have sex because otherwise if there is no bedroom compatibility there's no point in seeing each other.

Was this a shit test or do you think she really wasn't expecting me to be such a sexual guy? To me, this isn't the 'I'm not having sex with you' shit test. Was she baiting me by saying I want to have sex with you but I can't tonight?

Who cares? Seriously...who cares? She has made her intent known and you have made yours known and for some reason you want to turn it into a test. What makes it worse is that you are a guy that is always writing about getting laid and you always concern yourself with the pettiest shit. Is it just in your nature to make something out of nothing?

_________________
mpuaforum.proboards.com

Is it wrong to ask for another opinion? We all know women are nuts and say one thing and mean another. I care because I hate not knowing if I shot myself in the foot.

The problem is that you think that this is a test. You've had the best success when you did what you wanted to do and not worried about the woman's tests. You are creating your own problems by doing this.

_________________
mpuaforum.proboards.com

Problem is there's so much conflicting bullshit out there. If you agree to not have sex and just hang out or w.e. yeah you create plausible deniability but yet at the same time you show that you respect their wishes and back down which makes you a bitch etc. Instead of pushing for it. It's such a gamble from what I've experienced. I've A&A before and gotten friendzoned, and I've said no I'm actually fucking you tn not having sex and fclosed, so the ambiguity is what pisses me off the most with these girls.

Again, it doesn't matter. You're worried about this being a test when it's not. Experience is better than trying to learn from conflicting information out there.

_________________
mpuaforum.proboards.com

For the record, It was a test. She flaked no contact.

Flaking does not mean you failed a test. She could have felt one way one day and then a different way the next. She could have been fucking with your head the whole time. She could have gone back to the ex who dumped her. She may have realized she wanted to be a better role model for her kid. Maybe she found a better option. Flaking happens.

_________________
mpuaforum.proboards.com

Yeah not a shit test

Most girls who talk about fucking no strings attached can't handle that reality. They get nervous they get insecure. What I would have done was to reign it back and said let's go for a drink first. What I've come to realize is you gotta keep control and lead it sensibly. Not in the shit test frame control bs way but lead it because she's gonna back out if there is too much pressure.

Ever thought about her cycle, hmmm? I'd like to have sex but can't sounds like a subtle, respectful way of saying she's out of commission for a few days. It's a less embarrassing way of putting it.

Because guys don't have periods, they really have no clue how it impacts a woman's decision making process and never factor it in the equation. Talk to a woman and get dialed in.

As for you, you're over thinking this. In football, quarterbacks make the play decisions, not the running back. Be the quarterback. You know the game plan, so follow it - attraction, rapport, sexual tension, close. Simple.