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| anaconda1 | PostPosted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 1:00 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun May 01, 2011 8:20 pm Posts: 17 | | Hi guys!
I'll try to keep it as short as possible.
I met a girl (25 years old) about 2 weeks ago at a social dance class. after the class we all went out dancing.. We had a nice talk. When i got home i got a friend request from her on facebook. Since then we chatted a few times on facebook. I once invited her for launch durring work (we work 200m apart). It was fun. So fastforward to this thursday i asked her if she wants to go to a concert on friday. She was excited... Even changed some plans to make it, becuase she needed to go somewhere early on saturday.
So on friday we met up we went out to a concert.. It started early around 18.30... Then we moved to another location had fun and good conversations.. Then at 22.00 we went to another concert and were there to around 2 in the morning. Durring the night we had quite some to drink. So in the last 10mins we both starred into each other for a bit and i kiss closed.. We made out for 2,3secs then she moved away and told me that i surprised her and that she dont think its smart and that its going to be awkard in dance classes. I ignored everything.. Pulled her again and we had a oneminute make out session.. This went on for 15mins then we went out of the club and we were there for i dont know half an hour for sure.. We talked, made out, talked.. She told me she cant get emotionaly envolved because she ended a 7 year long relationship ( so they were basicly together since she was 18) a couple of months ago and slowly now started to get over it... I didnt pay a lot of attention to what she was saying i just told her that i like her. She said it would be the smartest if we just went home. We made out again and i whisepered into her ear that i think we should go to her place (i knew she was home alone). She said no... I ignored and pinned her against the wall made out and rubbed on her pussy with my leg.. I told her she should overthink it again and that shes going to regret it.. She didnt know what to say so i just grabbed her hand and started to take her to her place.. She complied. LMR beaten.. Yeah! On the way home she talked something about her ex that shes not rdy for anything yet and stuff and that shes not into one night stands. So we came to her place... Had sex.. It was good. In the morning i made coffee, we talked.. Nothing special.. She mentioned a couple of times again that its going to be awkward now. So after a few hours she needed to go home to her parrents for a birthday party.. We walked to a store, i hugged her and we splited.
So guys how should i proceed? I like her, she could potentially be girlfriend material but i dont know her well enough. I want to get to know her better. Should i take it a bit slower now or should i ask her out and just escalate all the time?
Would love to hear your input.
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| JackZero | PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 9:42 am | |
| Offline | | The Grand Puba |  | Joined: Mon Feb 24, 2014 11:17 pm Posts: 5962 Location: Los Angeles | | Get to know her and keep having sex with her.
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| anaconda1 | PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 10:31 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun May 01, 2011 8:20 pm Posts: 17 | | ok so coffee dates are not a good idea now i suppose? I should always have f close in mind? I was thinking of suggesting we should keep things casual and keep having fun.
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| R.C | PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 2:50 pm | |
| Offline | | Ask a mod for a custom title |  | Joined: Thu Oct 13, 2011 1:53 pm Posts: 5428 Location: Romania | | Go out for drinks, rinse and repeat.
It's understandable why she's having some issues. You basically just have to keep doing what you've been doing. Brush her protests aside and confidently lead.
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| anaconda1 | PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 6:19 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun May 01, 2011 8:20 pm Posts: 17 | | Thanks for the input guys.. drinks and repeat is a good idea... but there are some logistical problems to that.. she usually goes to her parents almost every weekend 50 km away, so it's hard to get her out on weekends, and during the weeks, it's hard to do drinks, because we both work in the morning. But ok i guess.. i'll try during the week.
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| R.C | PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2016 6:51 am | |
| Offline | | Ask a mod for a custom title |  | Joined: Thu Oct 13, 2011 1:53 pm Posts: 5428 Location: Romania | | Like Dragula said, an interested woman will find 25 hours in a day to meet you. I'm sure she's find a few hours during the weekend.
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