Okay basically i came back on a night out on a bus with some college mates where we were just meant to get pissed and have fun with no girls. There was some girl in our college (6/7 cute in a innocent kind of way) sitting on a bus and she gave me a smile. Of course me the drunk thinking with my dick not my brain approched her and started gaming as per usual much to the amusement of the friends. I did it just for fun as i she wasnt really my type. After 40 mins the bus journey was over and me and my friends were getting off and so did she, where she says come back to my place.

I get a taxi with her and my friends go back home. We get back smoke and i listen to her Troubled life story for 30 mins whilst i try to sober up. Of course one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together. The next morning she makes me breakfast coffee whatever. I wanted to make a quick getaway but felt bad as she lives on her own in her house( 1st mistake) and her best friend stabbed her in the back so i stayed for a bit and she didn't want to let me leave and wanted to go shopping with me that day!!! After 2 hours after waking up i make my excuses and finally go.


Now she wont stop calling me i feel bad and visited her in the library to study( gay i know) and my friends dont understand why me the player who does it so many times wont just tell her to Fuck off but i cant find it in my heart with her numerous troubles (father nearly dying, repeating college e.t.c.)

I tried the old im in a long term relationship but were on a break story but she still doesnt get it and im REALLY scared what she will do if i say go away.

She says i am the first person she has trusted e.t.c. and i would never lie to her blah blah and that i understand her.


SORRY FOR THE LONG POST BUT THIS IS REALLY SCARING ME.....
WHAT DO I DO?...

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"When women go wrong i go right after them"

"Girls will try to play their mind games on you, of which, i know all the answers to"

"Good looks but no game gets you somewhere but with both its just unfair"

Tell her that you're not who she thinks you are, and you've got your own problems to deal with, you are in no position to be a shoulder to cry on right now. Tell her sorry but that's the way things are right now.

Also maybe take heed of your sig man, could be some kind of game she's playing to make you stick around.

Thanks but i said something along those lines yet she still says things like "Its okay baby next year we will both be together and stronger e.t.c."

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"When women go wrong i go right after them"

"Girls will try to play their mind games on you, of which, i know all the answers to"

"Good looks but no game gets you somewhere but with both its just unfair"

lol, well if she's one of those ones I'm afraid you're gonna have to tell her again. I don't really see any other way out except telling her straight, avoiding her completely (which is an arsehole thing to do) or making her hate you (which is dishonest, and difficult).. so, i'd go for telling her straight.

Lol dude ill start by sayin congrats on finding yourself a crazy one. But on the real i would straight up tell her that you where drunk when you guys got together and you know she has feeling for you but you dont feel the same. Tell her your not looking for a relationship at the moment that your out tryin to hav a good time. If she dosnt understand youll hav to be even more straight forward. Listen i had sex wit you when i was drunk. I dont hav feeling for you but i still dont mind sex. Right now thats all im lookin for and to meet new people.

That last part is maybe not something you wanna say and regardless of what your intentions rly are (i dont know if all you want is sex) your just tellin her them to get her off your back. Good luck wit the situation.

Hey, I don't wanna come across as the devils advocate, but do you think if you were in a simular situation (lonely,full of troubles) she'd want to help you?! No, more than likely she'd refuse to answer your calls and completely blank you.In the long run, she will have to learn that its unfair to place an emotional burden on the one person, and guilt you into spending time with her.Do your own thing and tell her out straight that you have your own problems and shes just adding to your stress...

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