Ok guys I'm going to get straight to the point and I'm hoping some of you more experienced Puas can help me out with this...

Ok so I met this girl and we seemed to hit it off the first couple of hangouts. I tried to have sex with her on the second hangout and she gave me lmr which was ok with me because I can actually see myself dating this girl. Well a couple more hangouts later I try again and she does the same thing and says she just wants to get to know someone and eventually date and then that can come into the picture... I played it off like I wasn't upset which obviously I sort of was. We have hung out a couple times now after that and nothing more than making out...

How do I proceed?! I feel like we're just kind of stuck in f*@king limbo here...

Not to mention she was always texting me back literally right away and now it's gotten to the point where a lot of the time it's hours before she texts back WHICH IS FINE WITH ME. I only like texting for logistics and maybe a goodmorning/goodnight text or a few texts after a date. My problem with it is I can just kind of feel that vibe that she's not as interested in me as she once was and I don't know how to turn it back around!

She is coming over for a hot tub night this week and I need a god damn game plan here or this is going to be over real quick.

Please don't come in here and say "next her" because I am interested in this girl and want to date her but in the past SEX has always come first and kind of solidifies the girls feelings for me... With this girl obviously that hasn't happened.

Any tips/game plans/constructive criticism would be greatly appreciated guys!

Some girls will take longer than others to have sex with. Depending on how hot the girl is, my limit is usually on the 3rd date, otherwise I'll move on. You should always try to escalate to sex once you are at a sex location. If you get LMR, take a step back and build more comfort and share personal stories with each other and try again later, but do it more slowly. She just needs more comfort or be more turned on with foreplay before sex.

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OK man seems like you're really inexperienced, because honestly this is simple;

If you're that interested in this person and want a LTR then you have to wait till they're ready. Sounds like you're losing your patience tho as you wouldn't have posted this if it weren't bothering you...

The other thing is you need to give them some space. Everyone is different, but if your crawling up someone's ass every time they turn around it's a turn off.

Thanks I appreciate the replies you guys are both right and I'm just gonna chill out for a bit. To the poster above me yes I am inexperienced that's why In the beginning of my post I said hopefully some more experienced Puas can help out.