Hi guys,

I am a 29 year old Dane, who lives in Prague, Czech Republic. Let me first say this - Eastern European Girls are smoking hot! Have you ever been to Eastern European countries? If you have, please share your story!

Moving from home country in Denmark to Czech Republic was not easy, and I've only been here for a couple of months. That also means, that I do not have a lot of friends, and the friends I do have, is not much into clubs - they prefer small pubs drinking beers and playing cards, which means, that I have not seen the most exciting part of Prague yet.

I have a Danish friend moving down here soon, which means we will hit the clubs. And here comes my big issue. As most (all?) new comers to the game, I have approach anxiety. I know a lot of good openers, but even what I get passed my approach anxiety, and throws off an opener, I find it hard to naturally continue the conversation. I guess it's here the Multiple Threads game starts (?), but what do I actually say?

I guess what I am saying is, that I struggle with the game after the opener. A great example:

I open a two set with the opener: "Would you date a guy in a wheelchair?" (Do you btw think that's a good opener? I use it like 40-50 % of the time, because I once was in a wheelchair for 3 month, after a ski accident) They answer, and it's all on me to continue the conversation and entertain both of them. What is a good way to keep the conversation interesting? Give me your experiences and ideas, and if you could link to threads about this part of the game, please share it!

Are there any Europeans in here? Please let me know. Cheers

Welcome to the forum! I find opinion openers may work but you it's much more fluid and natural to go situational or give a compliment and then transition into a normal conversation. You don't want to spend too long on the opener because you're still framing yourself as a stranger getting her opinion or doing small talk and leaving. The opener should be less than a minute, but I usually transition as soon as a I get a response from her. I usually transition by saying they are really friendly and either cold reading where they are from or ask them. Then I start qualifying them and get them to invest. You can check out my signature on ways to open and have a conversation.

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Opinion openers are good when you have approach anxiety as they attentuate the fear of rejection.

You haven't actually declared interest in them sexually you may just want a female opinion on something so there's no "attraction frame" to reject. It's a bit of a wuss out really but op openers are a good way to get you comfortable with interacting with attractive women.

Most will realise what's going on mind but they can't be sure so will go along with the frame.

If you're with a wing or bunch of friends the best opinion opener for attractive girls is "Me and my friends need a female opinion on something to settle an argument: Who do you think is the most attractive girl in here?"

Their minds go into overdrive. Groups of women are very hierarchical and information from guys on attractiveness is considered very valuable due to it's possibilty of resetting everyone's assigned values objectively.

This is one opinion opener which I have never seen fail.

Thanks guys, appreciate it!


I don't think I'm having problems with the openers, that's not what I've experienced. Once I've given a non-threatening opener, I find it hard to continue the conversation in such way I don't lose value. I need to start multiple threads including DHV's - but how? Can you guys give some actual examples?

Thanks!