alright so heres the deal im 19 and a soph. in collgege. Ive only had 1 GF my whole life and i was madly in love wit her although we only went out for like 4 months, i was/ still am a lil scarred by her any way ive been with 2 girls my whole life and hooked up(made out)with 9/10 its sad i keep count i no. Anyway im pretty good looking but im shy i cant make the first move and im not rlly attracted to any of the girls that claim they like me. N im pissed cuz all i seem 2 find r hook up buddies who jus wanna make out. SOME ONE PLZ HELP thank U sincereely

You're not attracted to any of the girls that like you because the girls that YOU like are the one's who are more timid, or the one's who you think are ignoring... but they're not. You think they are. Don't let thought get in the way of reality. The reality is, they're not ignoring you. They want you, every girl wants you. Every girl you look at wants you. It doesn't matter if they're talking to another guy, ten guys, or looking straight past you, you have to convince yourself that they want you.
They want you to come talk to them.
They want you to make them smile, laugh.
They want you to be confident to make up for their lack of...

The day after you read this, make it a goal to approach one girl you see everyday that you're attracted to. Just get her attention, make her laugh.
No names, no numbers, just get over the hump.

thank u man i really do appreciate the advice n ill b sur 2 try it out

im in the same boat as u