Hi, I'm 23, soon to be 24 in a couple of months. Been in London just over a year now, mad busy with work but part of my life I am really lacking in is with females.

I don't know many people in London, I work with a couple of friends who just have girlfriends so they are never out on the weekends.

Finally decided to join this website forum after I have been looking over all the youtube videos of dating coaches, RSD, etc for quite a few months. Always mentioned it to friends saying we should start practising it, no-one has ever been keen to try.

I'm fed up of being embarrassed around girls when I'm out, thinking I'm not worthy, not knowing what to do. So I just need to start turning this part of my life around and think it will help me develop as a person too.

So yeh hi, where the hell do I even start

Hi

Where to start ? Well, I'm sure you might find some great advice here on this forum.

I'm new myself but I can relate to your pain of having friends that are sucked-up by their girlfriends 24/7. The other part of my friends (great people by the way) they still believe a target should come to them and not the other way around.. C'mon that's not how the basic instinct of a woman works in the end they want to be seduced (in dutch we say they want to be conquered) - but it's more an indication that their not willing to approach and possibly fail than to win at all. It takes guts to stand up and approach, show value etc.. So be proud whenever you do it, because 90% of the club or pub or wherever you are playing stood there and did nothing. Once you do it more, you get better at it. That's just a fact, at least that's what I believe.

So welcome Pricey ! Let's have a good time here.

Keep in touch
Cheers
CS

Welcome to the forum my man. If you're a total beginner, I would recommend you don't just read the posts
and fill your mind up with clutter information, but choose 1 challenge you're dealing with at the moment,
and focus on it until you're over it.

So if approaching women is your first challenge, work to be able to approach women easily.

Then move on to the next thing.

Avoid excess reading and overthinking. Balance action with learning.

Welcome again and if you need anything, feel free to ask!

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cheers for replies

yeh I definitely have already filled my head with all the information out there.

I just don't want to go out alone to do this, need to find another beginner who's looking to learn and approach too