Hey, I'm Ben. I live in Orange County. I'm 25 years old. I'm a Physics student at CSUF. Right now, I work as a waiter. If you know anything about the service industry, we get really wild and drunk after work. I can guarantee any restaurant you've been to that the staff are all banging each other if they are single.

I first got into "the game" when I was 21 and came across The Game by Neil Strauss (aka Styles) doing some college project for a communications class. I was kinda hooked from there, but I didn't use The Game for the project. It became sort of a hobby. I looked for other books and materials and used what I learned with the girls I knew and those in my class. I got pretty good and eventually got a girlfriend. We were together for 2 years, had an apartment together, and we went to different schools (long beach and fullerton). Without going into detail, I broke up with her and moved out the next morning. The next day, I went out and got myself a lay; thank god for Downtown Fullerton.

So that's a brief story about who I am and how I've returned. Now, the reason I have come back to the PUA lifestyle is to sort of just dust off some of the things I know and relearn some things I might have forgotten. I realized I was rusty when I was having a hard time approaching at a bar a couple of weeks ago. Just thoughts running through my head like "how was this done?" "Why can't I think of anything to say?" Things that I thought use to be instinct.

I like being myself and people like the real me. As for Hobbies, I like to play guitar and I was in a Alt. Rock band in high school. For fun, talent shows and stuff. Love the Foo Fighters, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Sublime. The band that was almost 8 years ago. Use to play a lot of Basketball and I use to surf. Right now I'm getting into weight lifting.

My goals are to get a Ph.d. in Physics and make some good money, beach house, the whole 9 yards. My goals for this forum are to get back into the game that I left behind as I think most guys do when they get into a serious relationship.

Anyone in Orange County? Sound off.

Welcome to the forum! Nice job getting the lay right after the breakup. Best way to move on is to keep gaming. I used to live in SoCal and know a bunch of wings there and go back there sometimes. I'll send you a PM.

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Hello all. Just joined the forum and recently started the self-transformation process of improving myself. Just finished reading The Game, trying to get through The 6 Pillars of Self-Esteem, Revelation, Art of Seduction, and The Truth.

My goal here is to start practicing my approaches, find a good mentor, and gradually get better at both inner and outer games and get a date with a girl within the next month.

Originally from Taiwan and currently in Orange County, California. If you're in the area, hollar! Let's be each other's wingmen and improve ourselves by a little every single day!

Since I am still a beginner, I humbly ask those of you who have come before me to endow me with the wisdom you have obtained from the field. Thank you all in advance.

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