Hey Guys!

Quick intro, I'm 28 years old I've always known about "pickupartistery" Since de days of mystery method a good 8 years ago.
However I taught at this age, I didn't need it anymore and I shouldn't follow its rules no more...Boy was I wrong!

So let me try and explain my situation as clear as possible so you guys can give me the best possible advice.

First of all this girl I like Is like a 7 with a nice body, She used to be a wild girl when she was young and I think she dated quite some guys and she is constently consernd about what people think about her.
I've know her for a long time and I always tried with her but we were more friends and we dated other people.
We didnt see each other for some years everytime then we started hanging out again this happend a few times.

So now after 2 years, she was chatting with a friend of mine asking bout me and stuff.
She then started contacting me and talking to me and she told me she was open to be loved and wanted love.
So first I was thinking, yes finally! Second thaught was this is gonne be a piece of cake, Boy was I wrong again!
We had a couple of dates she let me touch her leg and stuff never a kiss. She was showing zero attraction to me after a couple of dates. But she wanted to keep dating and she let me touch her a little more everytime. Everynow and then she told me not to touch her then one day. I told her I liked her (Yeah I know stupid desperate move) and then we had some issues and didnt talk for like a month.
I ignored her and she came back and told me she missed me showed me some old pics from years ago.
So me being the supid dude I am went back to date her thinking everything was fixed. I know I shoulda played hard to get a little more. Anyway she has control and I know so we did 2 dates again we kissed 2 times. I told her I wanted a relationship (i know silly me again, regret it) and she told me she didnt know what she wanted she tells me she doesnt trust me 100% and thinks I cant handle her coz shes difficulty and that maybe we should stay friends.

So now I opend my box of magic tricks and luckely I had one little trick left.
I asked a hot girl on my facebook who I am friends with to post on my wall when will I see you.
Now the girl got jealous and started tell me how she feels and stuff I had to go coz i was at work.
She thinks Im with the Girl now what should my next move be guys? Do I tell her after a few hours while she still thinks im with the girl that I wasnt with the girl out of respect for het or do I tell her that tomorow let it sink in with her or something?

Anyway this came out a long as text wasnt my intention:D Hope other people can be helped and sorry for my bad english

She doesn't really sound too dateable - first of all.

The only correct/decent thing you did in this entire tale was use a jealousy play. You told her you liked her and wanted to be in a relationship with her both before you slept with her (you just don't do this) and before you had any real investment from her.

You appear to be aware of your mistakes here but for some reason I feel like you're going to make them again. Call it a hunch.

What are you leaving out? Why wouldn't she trust you? That sounds like a key piece of info...

we dont have much deep conversations and I dont talk a lot about myself believe me im not gonne make those mistakes again bro.

Im fighting back for control brother she told me those feelings today and I didnt tell her any of mine even do she tried to know them. She thinks im lying and I just wanne have sex also shes not gonne have sex that easily I think shes turkish (no she doesnt have a mustach)

Back burner - let her be jealous.

You've already told her you're down for dating. She's the one with the problem.

Meantime, the jealousy play can be powerful... But really only illustrates how jealous she'd be in an actual relationship.

My advice would be to actually just go out and hang out. No pressure. Have fun. Get to know her. If you two have some chemistry things will happen.

No need to keep re-iterating you want to be with her.

While you're doing all that - FIND OTHER GIRLS. Diversifying is how this game works. If you have 10 on the go, you won't care if one leaves and wouldn't be here worrying about it.

ok thx bro but i kinda want her but thanx for the advice so i just keep dating this girl then wish me luck

This is oneitus.

This is a pickup forum - chasing one specific girl isn't what this is typically about.

The replies you'll get here - including mine - are based around this premise.

Not sure what else to tell you. I hope it works out for you - but your mindset needs to change if you're going to employ a lot of the advice you'll find here.

You really should listen to Charles, OP.

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