hi ,

one of my target is committed to someone else. but i fuck do care about it.

i wish to pick up her.

Yes, it is very possible -- sometimes it's even easier, since HBs are rarely being fulfilled by their boyfriends.

However, if she truly believes that she's "in love" with him, then it would be a lot harder and many (including me) would argue that it wouldn't be right to break them apart.

The idea of "boyfriend destroying" is to disqualify yourself by actually encouraging her to keep going out with him, while at the same time making her second think their relationship.

Here's an example (credits to Rye Lee):

PUA: Eh, it's alright, we would never work out anyways. I mean, ten years down the road I can totally see you guys in a nice little house with a white picket fence, 2.6 kids, and a dog.
HB: 2.6 kids?
PUA: That's the average number of kids the average family in America has. Anyways, while you were living the simple life with ___, I'd be flying from my private island off the coast of Madagascar to my estate in east London. My life would be way too hectic for you to be a part of.
HB: Well, I highly doubt that me and ___ will ever get married...

See what's happening? You're making her relationship with AFC to be boring and ordinary, while you're living the exciting life. Which one looks more appealing? You're instilling doubt in the relationship, DHVing yourself, and disqualifying all in one beautiful package.

There's a lot more to it.. search "boyfriend destroyer."

Hope I helped!

yes u did ...thks for tht

I'd argue that although it is possible to pick up a girl in a committed relationship, it is NOT going to be easy and I honestly think it is pretty low. Now a girl that is in a relationship and she isn't committed, meaning that she doesn't think he's "the one", or if she does, it's because she doesn't know he's a douche and you do, she is fair game and will be a much easier target generally speaking imo.

As Blues said, a girl in a relationship is rarely being fulfilled by her bf, so that's where you have an easy target, you just need to find where she isn't being fulfilled and be able to do so, as well as fulfill everything else as well, but that one thing is you're way in. If she feels that her bf doesn't understand her emotions, demonstrate that you do and anchor that to good feelings and romantic/sexual feelings, by doing kino and also linking the topics to sex/her and your sexuality.

The girls in committed relationships aren't going to thank you for breaking them up for something that probably doesn't have anywhere near the same possibility of success and they might end up scarred for life because of that mistake and that loss. I advise against going for these girls; PUAs leave women better off than they were, not damaged for the rest of their lives. They are also incredibly hard to get, because they are committed due to the fact that they are most likely about as fulfilled as a person gets.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Check out Ross Jeffries' Boyfriend Destroyer pattern:

Chapter 11:
THE BOYFRIEND DESTROYER, PART II
When to use this pattern: This pattern is for use when you ask a
woman out and she hits you with that famous line, "I have a
boyfriend". It's purpose is to get her to meet you for coffee
anyway, at which time you can play with her mind using any of
the other patterns we'll give you. It's also another example of
one of my favorite types of patterns: time distortion!!!
Steps/tools used:
1. Trance phrases/time distortion to get past her resistance.
2. Trance phrases to get her imagining already having been
with you and really enjoyed it.
3. Get her to repeat that train of thought.
4. Pitch for coffee date.
You: Well, look, I really enjoyed this, and I'd like to
talk to you again sometime? Can I call you?
Her: Sorry ... I have a boyfriend.
You: You have a boyfriend? Well, I have to admit I'm
disappointed, I have to respect that you're in a
relationship. But let me ask you a question. How
surprised would you be to FIND YOURSELF ACTUALLY
LOOKING FORWARD TO SPENDING A LITTLE TIME WITH ME? I
mean maybe to the point where you could IMAGINE US
OVER COFFEE, LAUGHING AND HAVING THE BEST TIME, and
you starting to FEEL REALLY COMFORTABLE WITH IT? As
you THINK ABOUT IT LIKE THAT, doesn't seem natural to
meet like Monday or Tuesday for coffee?
The Boyfriend Destroyer: Part II
Note: Originally, I taught this pattern to be used if she
brought up the boyfriend objection when you first asked her out.
With all the other patterns I've shown you, I'd only use it now
if she brought up the boyfriend as part of an objection to
getting physical or after you'd been screwing for a few weeks.
Her: I'm sorry ... I can't keep seeing you. I should have
told you before, but I have a boyfriend.
(or, as you are making out like crazy)
Her: We really shouldn't be doing this. I have a boyfriend
You: But I'll tell you what really fascinates me. It's
like, what's this guy's name you're going out with?
Her: Bill
You: Right, so you're going out with this guy, Bill (Point
to your right palm) OK. And you think he's real cool,
and you're enjoying it and all that ... and then let's
say for whatever reason you break up. You ever BREAK
UP WITH SOMEONE (point to palm) and you go through
that period of mulling it over, and maybe you NOTICE
THE PATTERNS IN HIM THAT RUINED YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP
... or maybe you start to LOOK AT HIM IN A WAY THAT
REALLY MAKES HIM A LOT LESS ATTRACTIVE IN YOUR MIND?
However you would JUST DO THAT! I mean it's so weird
how the mind does all this stuff, but what I'm curious
about is, what would it be like for a person if that
entire process that usually takes months, what would
it be like if that entire process were to TAKE PLACE
INSTANTANEOUSLY (snap your fingers in her face) in
someone's mind? It'd be like (wave your hand in her
face) YOU COULDN'T SEE HIS PICTURE ANY MORE IN YOUR
MIND. Every time you tried it'd be like something was
just wiping it right out. And that's how you'd know
that you'd already started to FORGET ALL ABOUT HIM, TO
MAKE HIM LESS IMPORTANT.
Or you know, like, is there someone you used to date,
but now there way out of your mind ... you haven't
even thought about them in a long time? Yeah? Well
notice as you take your finger and point, where do you
see there picture?
Right over there? Isn't that interesting? So if you
were to, FORGET ABOUT THIS GUY (hold up your palm,
push it to where she pointed), it'd be like he gets
stuck in the same place. And of course you might think
to yourself, "but I want to put him back".
You might think you might think that ... until you
REALLY NOTICE that from over there, from this
perspective, you really can SEE ALL THE THINGS in him
and about him you don't like ... something that over
time, would really cause you to dump him.
And when that happens it's a little sad, but it's also
a nice thing, because it allows you to CREATE AN
OPENING FOR SOMEONE NEW. (point to yourself) I know
that's how it can GO DOWN WITH ME (point to your
dickee!)

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B-Sweet

When you are the prize, you are like a diamond. If you allow her to become the prize, you become a cubix zarconia.