Hello!
This is a weird one for me, to ask for help in approaching women seems feel like the ultimate failure for a man but that is what I am doing! I try to view this as a positive thing, the next step in handling my anxiety. So any websites, mentors, classes (or whatever) you can suggest would be fantastic.

A little bit about me.
I am an Australian, 24 years old. Mostly transition between Bangkok Thailand (where I spend most of my time) and Sydney Australia. I have literally zero experience with women, every time I get close but my emotions always get the better of me (and damn I let some great ones go). I enjoy Rugby, Soccer, Badminton, films, WAAAY to many Video Games , and (recently) drinking Irish whiskey.

My goals
To approach women, experience sex, to develop confidence, to no longer fear failure.

Like I said I am here to meet new people, so I hope to get to know you guys well. I am quite serious in learning these new skills so forgive me if I am bit forward in my questions. Hoping also to take on a mentor class (which is really embarrassing to say ) so, once again, any advice I would appreciate.

Do not be embarrassed that you are here, the guys here are looking to help you.

There is a beautiful world out there to be discovered. Meeting and merging with a woman is all it is cracked up to be and more, so soak in all the advice you get here that resonates with you.

Your starting point is about average for a new guy, but your motivation seems higher - that's a great thing. I expect some great things from you in future.

Focus a LOT more on taking action than on things like seminars and everything, here's why: the more you watch, read and study... the more invested you become, which adds pressure "Wow, I can't fail now! Not after knowing everything that I know, if it all goes wrong now after all that studying I will be heart broken!" but if you go straight out and talk to 50 girls, the 50th one will go SO much better, and you'll literally make more improvement in 2-3 days (or however long it takes) than you would make in a month of reading material. Second by second your chance to be something spectacular is dissipating.

Here's a quote from the smartest motherfucker to ever live, which will kind of summarise the points made above:


Also, rather than the top guys who go out and take action right away, the guys who spend too much time reading and studying information, get wrapped up in the information bias which is only worsened by the likes of RSD. The information bias is essentially the feeling that you're "not quite ready" to make a decision until you've learned a little more on the topic, and a constant feeling that you're still in need of more information - the perfect opener, the perfect response to whatever she might say back to that opener, the perfect clothing, hairstyle, percentage of eye contact, escalation method, logistics, wingman bla bla bla. You get the picture.

As you can see, I have a thread in my signature for new guys. But I genuinely think you should just fucking FORCE yourself to walk up to a girl and talk to her before you read any more information whatsoever, ok? Just use some kind of opinion opener or anything "Excuse me, my friend is on holiday and has given me £60 to get his girlfriend a gift for her Birthday. I'm clueless, but I know she loves horses. Could you give me some ideas?" whatever, make it up. Use information and theory as a correction on what you've already done, rather than a tutorial for what to do in future.

If you really need to read something, just make it this thread and then go out and fuck shit up! I've got a feeling that you'll crush it. general-questions/nervous-about-making- ... 94288.html
Ask your brain a question, and it will instantly answer it with the truth. It's fucking fantastic. Infact, try it right now; ask yourself your name. See? Your brain instantly responded with your name. Ok, now ask yourself "Why am I going to be the next success story on this forum?" or maybe "why are girls going to fucking LOVE it when I walk over and talk to them? Why will it go so well? Why am I so good looking? Why are girls lucky if I talk to them?" wow. Asked myself the same questions as I wrote that and as expected, I now feel pretty good.

Remember that guy who gave up? Nah, me neither!

Man, I can't wait to see how much you'll crush this shit! Let me know how good you do!

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

OP if you do precisely what JDaniels is advising and take what you know NOW and put it to use by striking up convos, you will be ahead of the millions of guys who never take action and instead face the rest of their days thinking, "if only I would've tried........"

Take it from me, I wasted *years* reading and studying before ever making a first sober approach. Meanwhile 90% of what was learned was discarded. Think of all the experiences I could have had during those years and the learning curve I could have busted through if I would have just gone for it.

Thank you both for your kind words and advice!!!!!

I will likely act upon it
Thanks

At 24 it sounds you need to light a bit of a fire under your ass. Once you have sex, video games will no longer matter. You can take other cookie cutter advice or talk to a guy that's been there. I lived in the Philippines and Thailand.

There are a lot of Australian guys there and The Phils is one of the best places in the world for a man to learn game. Best of luck amigo drop me a line or anyone else in this forum with travel experience.

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