| Well, feminine energy grows through praise. Whenever she does something that you like, make sure to go all out with the compliments. The trick is to only compliment when it's earned. Don't just constantly tell her she's amazing for no apparent reason. Make sure it's earned, and it's true. If she has horrible hair then don't spend your days telling her how amazing it looks. Just don't comment on it.
If she does something new with her hair, gets her nails done, buys some new shit... then she probably did it for you. Don't be all "Ye looks ok. I'm a bit busy, sorry." but instead give it the whole "Wow! Yea, it looks great! The hair suits your face shape, and makes your eyes stand out more. I love it."
Compliment her on odd things, too. If she's being real understanding when you're going through some shit, tell her after it's sorted "You know, I do really appreciate how caring you are. I like knowing that we can count on eachother if shit fucks up for one of us. We're a good team, you and I."
When she comes bitching about somebody at work, it's hard to pay full attention (even I fuck up on this one a lot) but do your best. I don't care if she was a huge bitch, you tell her she was right and the other person was being such a bitch. Don't be all "Yea... mmmhmmm... yea..." but go all out with "She said what? Wow so she thinks she can just talk to you like that? I don't think so. That place is lucky to have you" lol. Don't do the same thing if she argues with a relative, in that situation just ask "do you want advice, or do you just want me to listen?" and if she asks for advice, you're so fucked. Just sit on the fence and make it look like you're giving advice when you're not. Just basically encourage her to reach the decision that she sounds like she has already reached.
And for the love of anal, please, NEVER, EVER, EVER use a neg on her. Ok?
I know this sounds a little too... routine based, but I know a girl similar to the one you described, and it's just how it is. If I tell her how good her hair looks, I get about 10 selfies on Snapchat to make sure that I get a full understanding of how good it looks. Lol. I do neg her though, because she knows the basics of pick up and knows about things like negs, reframes, qualifying and all this... so she knows I'm fuckin' about. If she didn't, I wouldn't. I'd tease, but I wouldn't go all out with a neg like "It's brave of you to wear that shirt. I love brave girls" lol.
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