hey...I have a question...
I have a friend that i regularly go to the bar with. Now...the problem is, that he is screwing up my game...last nigth for example. I was with 3 people. 2 of whiche were PUA, they knew what I was doing...the other didn't and tried to make himself look better infront of a girl by talking about me (negatively) trying to make her laugh. Well...I like the guy in general and I go out with him for beers and we have a good time. But then I see a girl and want to approach her, but nooo...he destroys it for me. What should I do?

Dillinger

What should you do to a business partner that steals from the you and the company?

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Is he doing it to be spiteful or does he mistakingly think you don't mind and it's funny? if it's the latter then you need to set him straight and explain that he's ruining your chances and you don't appreciate it. If he's a good friend he'll be cool with it and will understand and stop doing it, as a good friend wouldn't want to ruin your chances. If he's not cool with it then he's probably not a very good friend and you should ditch him sharpish in my opinion, if your trying to improve your game the last thing you need is people trying to mess it up for you.

bro my cousin is my worst AMOG. all you got to do is flip the script, start headlocking the fool for fun, and giving him knuckle heads in public. Thats it, he will realize sooner or later what you are pulling. Don't tell him what you are doing, because then he can clown you on that too. Just push the tempo by being overly aggressive with him playfully even though he could probably kick your ass, but friends don't beat one another down for playful shit.

Thanks guys...
i'll just take him down a notch...make him feel who's running this...good call.
Thanks again.

Dillinger

fuck that guy. That's fucking bullshit. You are better off going out alone than with someone ruining your rep like that. Some guys can't stop negging their friends, if so then just find someone else to go out with or go by yourself. Man, if a friend ruined my chances like that, there would not be a 2nd night of clubbing between us. That'd be it.

Just Alienate him - make him feel awkard!
Say something like "Awww are you feeling left out!? Sorry Girls, if he doesnt get any attention, he gets worried! I'll tell ya what (What ever his name is) - I'll pay you $5 to take them off my hands! They're Cramping my style!" (and wink at them)
This way, it makes them seem like they're being clingy and your also Shhowing him up aswell!!!

(Not my personal routine - taken from "The Game" - Dyler Durden originally came up with it!)

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your best friend sucks. you may want to find a new best friend. I have a handle full of best friends...and sure...they are attracted to my girlfriends, and I am attractive to their's. but a best friends girl is off limits...and that is well understood between my friends and me. I would never take a girl from one of my friends...and it doesn't matter if the girl goes down on me. My friends are more valuable than a quick fling. Short-term pleasure is great...but keep your eye on the prize...and keep your friends.

the best weapon you have against someone who portrays themselves as an AMOG is your wits. outsmart him, make him look mentally incapable of being on your level, plain and simple.

It's pretty pathetic to see that so called friends turn against you when you're flirting with a girl...Call him on his BS. Say it straight in his face. Be prepared to ostracize him...and do it if he doesn't meet up to your terms.
'nuff said

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thanks for all your advice guys.
I finally founda good solution. The other night i was at the bar with him(the wanna be amog) and took another one of my good friends (who in every sence is a player) and I have to say we are a lot on the same level. Anyhow...together we went and and made the AMOG feel so retarded about himself...that he kinda left after a while, saying he didn't feel to good...so i don't think i run into any problems with im anymore.
once again...thanks for the advice.

Dillinger

climax, your answer souns good.. jes mystery and his pupils know what them have to do

i think that either u go sarging without him, or if u do, then just kinda do the same that he does to u and kinda give him a slight noogie on his head or somthing. once he is embarassed enough to stop spoilin ur trik, he will stop.

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