I dated a stripper a couple years ago. She talked about guys like you who would buy her stuff and listen to her problems- she doesn't respect you for it, she's more closely repulsed by it, but values the money more so she tolerates it.

It's not your job to fix her. It's not your job to listen to her problems. It's not your job to even be nice to her. You have eroded a lot of her attraction for you by your neediness.

The only way I see yourself getting out of this hole is by backing off and creating some sort of jealousy plot line by beginning to date another girl. Perhaps at the strip club you go after other girls, or better yet, bring in a girl of your own that you are actually fucking. Even this may not work, but it has a shot at working if you get your shit together. At this point, you should consider going cold turkey on her, and focus on building a happy life for yourself.

Lol. This is the best topic I've ever seen.

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I'm anxiously waiting to hear what you said.

I'm assuming something along the lines of:

"It was my pleasure. You know I'm always here for you no matter what happenkntkntkslkfgndk".

Shit, sorry. I puked a little bit while writing that and had to clean up the keyboard.

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This thread literary needs to be closed and locked premaritally or deleted so this mentality doesn't run the risk of rubbing off on any one else on this entire planet.

I'm not even completely sure the OP needs to be addressed, some cases are just too far out there for any amount of paragraphs on the internet to fix. Ben Affleck in DareDevil could see through this non sense. I get frustrated in disappointed that guys even find themselves in these types of situations. Oneitis with the beautiful girl next door is ridicules to me, but its understandable. Oneitis for a stripper, thats pats you on the head, and has a boyfriend is something i never even try to understand.

And yes I'm judging you OP, this is ridicules. There are guys out there that kill themselves over women. And this is one of those situations that could lead up to that if you're not careful. Bro..

Do you have friends? What do they think?

I'm not even going to tell you to drop that girl, or stop letting her use you because at this point it would be useless. You don't understand women or want they want enough to even get it. Door mats were created for a reason though I guess. Something to wipe your dirt off on so you don't have to carry it into other areas of your life. And thats exactly what you are and will be until you dust yourself off and wake the fuck up. She will rub her feet off on you when they get dirty and walk into her home clean while you sit there waiting to be used again. She doesn't respect you or like you. She pity's you and values the money you spend. If she's willing to dance naked on stage for money from strangers , she definitely willing to use some loser she knows for his money that doesn't even make her get naked.

Maybe its just some fetish you enjoy. Being walked on. Thats possible. If thats the case then this is exactly what you want, and I'm proud of you.

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