This is my first real attempt at day-game pick up. So I've been a bit frustrated with my experiences so far yielding no real results. I get way to scarred on an approach and have been missing out on some great experiences because of it. This in mind, I refused to start my semester without showing something. So I had a "can't lose" mentality and wanted to try some day game. I kind of felt like it would be easier. Since I can really talk to women, which plays a bit more in my wheel house.

I go to BoA and see this gorgeous brunette girl working behind the counter. Just so happens I get called over as her next customer. I felt like she looked my way and we had a connection while I waited in line. Probably bullshit but this is what I told myself and when I got to go to her I said "This is fate." So I start talking doing the whole what brings you here. Tell her I lost my card she gives me a number to call BoA customer help line. I notice that all her nails are painted but her two ring fingers. I talk to her about that for a bit and start talking about trends, then Carson Daly and a few other things. I felt so weird escalating any further but if I could go back I would ask to see her nails; notice something about the finger length; and went to a palm reading. But in an hour there were closing and I could see the customers were getting impatient. Understandable, when I was in line it was mind numbingly boring and long.

With this quasi-probably pseduo-confiedence, I end up saying to myself "I need to go to a trendy coffee shop. Pretend to do work and make one good approach." So that’s what I did. When I first walked in, I saw her waiting in line. My beautiful Italian target. I got myself ready on what to ask. The wifi here is shit. I am going to ask her if she can get on. So I sit at the table next to hers and after a bit; go in for the kill. I ask her if she can get on. She then responds "Well I keep getting logged off".

I said I always get bad connections here and offer to ask the barista to help. The barista tells me there's too many people. When I walked back she asked what the barista told me. I told her and then said I should have went to Starbucks and made some bad joke. She laughed. I then asked if she was as student she said she wasn't, that she was doing work for work. Asked me if I was a student and I said I was and pursuing a doctorate degree and worked at Rite Aid as a Pharmacist Intern. She asked how I liked that. I asked her about her job. She a project manager. She builds home depots and Walmart's. So I called this big and important creator of things. She liked it. Later I here she has a BS in Business and I asked her how she got it as a BS and not BA. She told me its because of she took a bunch of math lessons. I asked her if she was then a math nerd. She laughed.

Basically the entire encounter I tried to use the basic methodology of building attraction, then comfort. For seduction, I did what I should have done with the bank teller. I noticed her finger length, led into palm reading. And she seemed to think it was quite interesting. I squeezed her hand for a second and I think she squeezed back. I should have held her hand the whole time but didn't want to take too big of risk. I should have thinking back. But we talk about her ex and my ex. Because I said she had a fate of someone who went through a lot. She said that was very much her and opened up. I felt like I made a really solid connection with her. At the end of it, about an hour. I say I have to go but ask her to continue this conversation at another time. She agrees and I get her number. Then ask for a hug. She says of course. Fucking awesome.

So I know I still have a lot to still learn. I am sure I made some mistakes. I am not 100% sure if our date next weekend will happen. But I can say I feel I effectively mixed natural and planned game into a real emotional connection with a beautiful woman at least once. I hope this is just not beginners luck and I did use all the resources I've learned. And I can't wait to do again.

Honestly it's a solid start. Good job with the girl getting coffee. It'll be interesting to see if the number pans out.

I've been sarging for a while and I still get anxiety. The key is working through it. I by far felt most comfortable gaming random girls in the college mess hall.

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My PUA Journey (2014): http://bit.ly/1yYjtSV
MY PUA Journey (2015): the-342-journal-vol-2-rugby7-vt187356.html
My Workout (Read this): http://bit.ly/1zIQncY

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Thanks man. I think I must have made some mistakes being new. Actually I know I did. I hit her up a few days after with a fun message that relates to a conversation we had. I haven't heard back from her. Kinda sucks cause she was beautiful. But I am sure I'll have more opportunities