met a girl last week, total babe. She's the new girl at a place a few of my god friends work. We seemed to get on pretty well... so when we were out last week, I kissed her. It didn't turn into full blown making out but she asked me to walk her home which I agreed to if she made me a hot chocolate (I probably genuinely wanted one).
She has a room mate so when we got back, she made my hot chocolate and got under a blanket on the sofa with me and we fell asleep. cute eh. Woke up in the morning and her room mate, who is actually a very good friend of mine told us to go up to their room. So as we lay in bed I ran my fingers across her back which she really liked and I got her to do the same to me. We kissed once or twice more, only lightly. she always responded to my kisses but said things like "why am I doing this". She was actually going out on a date that afternoon with someone else which she was pretty open about and I kind of ribbed on her for it but never discouraged her. I don't think she had a great time on it.
Anyway, new years eve. She's added me on facebook by now and I'm round at hers where my friends live for a little pre party. As we're walking into town, I link arms with her and hold her hand. She's keen. Every time we need the toilet we go together and kiss whilst we're away from everyone. This happens about 3 times before we decide to go get a drink in a bar. It's new years, we're both a bit drunk but things are getting flirty. So I take her outside and we have a good old chat, make out some more then end up back at hers. She was discouraging me from coming back but we started making out as soon as we got back on the sofas. Then when everyone else got back we went up to her room. She gave me a lot of LMR, things like "I don't even like you" and "everyone will be annoyed with me" but she gave in eventually and we had some pretty wild sex. Ended it with the line "I've never had sex with someone that isn't my boyfriend before"
Right, that sounded a bit like a lay report, I've written one yet. Here's my questions. Despite her saying she's wasn't interested in me, she was right? Does having sex with a girl make her more interested in you? I've read various things about how women become more invested in men after they've had sex with them, I'm just not sure how that works. And after this happening quite spontaneously how do I go about getting with her again? I'll see her again without a doubt but do I go down the normal route of dating as such as if I had just kissed her and got her number when we met or are things different now?

Stop listening to what girls say, listen to their actions. This is basics knowledge with women. I don't get why you'd even make this thread. She just fucked you bro, do you want a paper certificate from her or something?

This is like when women say they want a nice guy but always end up with ass holes, it's because they hate nice guys and like ass holes, get it?

What to do now?

Let her worry about who she likes or not likes, all you need to do is arrange another get together and see how she reacts from that. I'm pretty certain you will see her again. Don't get all weird and over analytical.

just assume she wants to ride your dick again, again and again. Whilst all these guys she dates are treating her to lovely restaurant meals and then they even get a kiss if they are lucky. They then drop her off to your place where you fill her in like an application form.

You need think of yourself that you're the prize.

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I dunno, reaffirmation or something... I'm not stressed about it either way. What you've said is pretty much what I was thinking, I guess I'm just trying to REALLY understand each situation I'm in why I was successful thus making it easier in the future. There's a lesson to learn from every experience bro

You're welcome

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