So many of you on the form are aware that I've been in love with a stripper for quite some time now (three years in Febuary). Last night I decided to ring in the new year with her. I missed that, she was with another customer when the countdown happened. It's what happened shortly after that, that was out of the ordinary.. Shortly after the stroke of midnight I approached her on stage, she tells me to sit down (I normally never sit at the stage) and tears are streaming down her eyes. She told me her boyfriend JUST came in and broke up with her. She got off stage and said that her friend would be in to pick her up but in the mean time she just wanted to talk to me. I tried giving her money and she wouldn't take it. So we talked for about an hour and I even cried a little myself. Now the morning after I'm just wishing I would of said so much more. Mostly I just tried comforting her, reminded her of how beautiful she is, all the positives in her life and I also told her that I've always cared about her very much. She responded with "I know I'm stupid I always go for the assholes."..So I know there are things I could have done better but they didn't come to me at the time.. Before she left she hugged me and told me she'd text me... Rather or not she will I'm not sure... So I was wondering if I could get some advice here on what to do/say next with her...Her birthday is less than two weeks away, I'd like to do nice for her for it.. So what do you guys think I should do? I apologize for pestering on this topic but most of you guys are very good with women and this girl is very near and dear to my heart.

She means so much to me, I'd send someone money for giving me advice that got me into a relationship with her.

What is wrong with you? You're paying her to be her emotional tampon, she doesn't want you. Why are you going back to strippers?

You are not near and dear to HER heart, you are an orbiter.

Get the fuck off this forum you loser.

Happy New Year, chode

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I had nothing else planned for New Years so I decided to go to the club. I'm hoping this recent heartbreak will change her and realize that a guy like me could bring her happiness. Happy New Year to you too!

Okay, yeah, keep giving her money and going to strip clubs then. Strippers are well known for sleeping with guys that pay their rent, you should consider this.

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She's finishing up school (this has been verified) in September and plans on quitting upon graduations, she constantly tells me she hates her job. I'm just hoping she's tired of dealing with all the unfaithful heart breakers. She knows she has someone who cares and genuinely cares about her in me. We've know each other for three years, I just hope she realizes the kind of stability and dependability I could bring and decided to turn to the forum for advice on winning her hand.. Because that whole "be yourself" thing usually doesn't work. I feel like I could of been more tactful last night while she was crying but at least I was there for her in the first place. What are key tips and points I should keep in mind?

Deposit $500 into my SPAM account and i will give you step by step, play by play, how to have this girl at your knees begging to have your kids

Yeah man, I'm starting to see your logic now, there is defo some chemistry between you both.

Girls LOVE surprises. I think the best way to do this is to add funds to her bank account without expecting anything in return, she will get curious and be in touch/chase you.

I think it's important to get girls to chase you and I think this would be a good idea for you,

Good luck dude!

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I will do this for $450 and do a better job

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Dragula, PM me

No. You have to learn to do this yourself, I don't want your money

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Then HOW do I do it? What should I do next for her?

Then HOW do I do it? What should I do next for her? I have dates for Saturday and Sunday and I kind of hope that they both cancel, I only want to see this dancer! I have her number, she told me she'd text me.. Never said when though.. I'd kinda like to text her and set up a date but don't know if itd be too soon or if she'd even like to see me.

I mean you'd think k after getting g her heart trampled shed be tired of the assholes and the players and I am so obviously not that guy.

Tell her you will pay her rent for her = She will have sex with you

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She lives comfortably with three roommates. I doubt her last boyfriend paid her rent. I'm not looking for a quick lay, I want a relationship with her.

Okay. Give her $600 direct debit, every month for jewelry and shoes

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