Hi guys,

So in a nutshell. Been seeing this chick, been on a couple of dates. Made out in the car, haven't had sex yet, but done more than a kiss. She keeps on blowing hot and cold which I respond to well acting unfazed. She will go from stages of calling and text me endlessly to then going slightly cold.

In those moments of when she goes cold I simply pull away too. Is this the right approach? If so, when she does initiate contact again after a couple of days what's the best way to then interact with her

Seems like you're handling it well to me

Abundance mindset, always say to yourself, 'What would I do if i had 10 other chicks wanting to meet up with me?'

With this mindset, you wouldn't even entertain her coldness.

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Thanks for the response.

The issue that I'm finding here is, when she does respond and get back onto the scene what are the do's and don'ts?

As an example, we spoke on the phone on Christmas Day. The usual how's your day been nonsense. At the end of the conversation she said she'll call me the next day. This didn't happen. I didn't message her at all for 48 hours and she randomly messages me at 4am last night telling me:

'I'm drunk and I'm trying to not call you when drunk'

Since then we've exchanged a few messages today. What I don't want to do is feel that she controls the frame.. Which to a certain point she is

Then do the same as her

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So briefly exchange messages and phone call conversations and then cut her off for a few days?

Or

Only respond to calls and message and never initiate talk?

Think you're looking way too into this.

If she doesn't give you much, don't give much back, just assume she will be on touch when she misses you, then reward her with your penis pnuematics

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Focus less on texting/calling basically. Get her physically and emotionally into you. Concentrate on facetime where you can have sex/fun.

You're doing well. And the best way to not let her actions get to you is to date multiple women. It works well because A) You think about her less and are enjoying time with other women and thus are improving with women and B) When a woman is aware a guy has woman options she becomes competitive. And women are very nosy and intuitive - they'll figure this out themselves.

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Ya don't worry about the frequency of texting and what not, focus on having as many options as possible. As someone already stated, girls make it a mission to compete with other girls. Ever notice how guys with girlfriends have more girls coming onto them? Just follow your gut feeling with the text/calling in my opinion. Obviously you know not to be needy so no need to worry bout that