A girl opened me when I sober once, also, I was wearing pink socks one time and a girl opened me, this one time, a girl asked me what cologne I was wearing and I told her to was Davidoff - cool water. Oh, I got opened dressed in costume as a mime too
My point is, how do you quantify this?
Should everybody be a sober pink socked, Davidoff wearing, sober/drink mime costumed dudes because of one instance?
It seems you're just trying to justify your crutch of getting plastered. If you feel it helps you out. Then who am I to stop you?
The goal is to be confident I guess, so not relying on these crutches are not exactly the best way to obtain that confidendce. I can already tell that you've never tried daygame before and the thought of it probably cripples you as you read my words. That's the typical reaction to people who just get wasted.
Its your life, but for me, I don't want to get drunk everytime I want to meet a girl but that's just me and save £140 in the process and feel good the next day. There has probably been times where a girl has gave you an IOI in an unfamiliar situation and you've done nothing about it because you're sober , raw and just don't know what to do
I do enjoy the occasional drink but I've earned to do it without. But if I get the occasional IOI in a grocery store, I'm pretty confident I could seduce her. Now that is social liberation and not being confined and limited to a bar.
You also made the a same thread the other day about going to bars dressed in costume. It seems you're trying to hack pussy and you're missing the goal of being "good with women". So stop trying with the Hacks and focus on the meat and potatoes of seduction. Do you really want to be the one trick pony costume wearing piss head that goes dressed as a kangaroo every Friday and Saturday night till he is about 40 years old? Think about it. Enough with the short term thinking, think long term.
How much do you spend?
My hypothetical answer:
Friday - £60 for drinks, £60 for a new costume
Saturday - £60 for drinks, £60 for a new costume
= £240 a weekend
My question to you, what are your TRUE sticking points with women? My observations are that you just some decent looking typical average dude that hangs out with a bunch of guys that likes sports, you all just get drunk and have a laugh.
I think you should dress your best, and do some raw approaches sober on girls in a shopping mall. Yes, it's boring IMO and you won't get as many results as you would in a bar, but with this style of game, you're inducing your raw approach, you actually have to be you and it will put some hair on your chest for sure. A few sessions of this will put your night time antics on steroids. This is what I did and it cured my crutch of g
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Anyway two questions
1)Was the girl who started kinoing by pretend slapping my face touching it interested was that an IOI?Seems like a high IOI yeah face touching?
2)Was the girl who started playing with my hat interested was that an IOI?
Derp, yes, NOT escalating and NOT finding out is the worst thing you could ever do here, why are you asking the forum's permission? (wasted?)
Always assume attraction, once you get to a decent level with this, you will become deluded and convinced that girls are giving you IOI's when in fact they are not. But it's a healthy mindset to have and it will rub off to the girl you're about to call her out on it with that she was checking out your ass on the reflection of her drinking glass.