This is an odd one.

I'm in an open relationship. We are trying to have a baby. We plan on going to court and having a legal agreement the moment she is pregnant. This post isn't about the baby or the ramifications. I want a mini me.

The issue is that I want to make sure the baby is mine. Seeing as how it's an open relationship there has been lots of communication about when she can have sex and the use of protection. Each month we have been having unprotected sex during her fertility window. We also agreed that she is not to hang out with other guys during her fertile times. And to use protection during times she is not fertile. I do trust her and do believe she will follow our agreement however with something as serious as a baby and a lifetime of responsibilities I want to leave absolutely no room for doubt. At first our arrangement was very restrictive, she was only sleeping with me and never left my side but each month that she doesn't conceive we've come to the realization it could take months or years to conceive and we enjoy having an open relationship more than a closed one.

It's not fair to tell her she can't hang out with guy friends when she is ovulating and that's what has been happening. We were talking about it today and I made a joke about a chastity belt and she came up with a brilliant idea. To put a tampon inside her and mark it so that when I remove it I'll know she didn't have sex.

This really isn't about trust. I trust her. It's about knowing %100 without a doubt. There are other reasons beyond trust to want to be certain. For example, what if she hung out with a guy, refused to have sex with him, he got bitter and went around saying she did. If she was pregnant with my child, he could cause a lot of unneeded drama between us.

Anyway, what I'm asking is you guys know any genius ways to prove a woman hasn't had sex. Or ways to prevent her from doing so.

The tampon idea was good but after discussion we realized it could only be used a short period of time due to toxic shock syndrome.

Please keep in mind we both enjoy our alternative lifestyle. We've both discussed this a lot and simply finding a solution would make us both happy and improve our relationship.

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Considered that agreeing to an open relationship while you're trying to conceive may not have been the best plan?