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update: She flaked on me.
So i invited her over, we went grocery shopping, back to my place, cooked, talked and had fun. She said i ended things with my ex during the week, then she came close to me and we started making out passionately on the couch. It got hot and heavy, i took her to my room. We made out a little and then she was like oh i'm tired, and she just laid on bed, pretending to be "tired". i played along and said "oh we are not having sex tonight" and then just casually started talking random shit and just like changed things up and ended the date.
i walked her to subway.
I texted her couple of days later, no reply, I called her a couple of days after, no reply. I don't get it. I mean she has been hung up on this guy for a while, then ended things with her so that she can be with me and flaked on me.
Maybe i was too nice to her on date? There is nothing left, next thing is sex and she knew! How can i improve on this?
The next time you have a wide open shot, shoot the fucking ball instead of passing.
You got nervous, in your head, and completely fucked up what was an easy lay for you.
Now, she's back in her home town, with her "ex"(cough cough). If you have sent messages and she hasn't replied, leave it alone until she does.
In the 3 weeks that she'll be away, please, please, please, meet some new women.
CHAT