So i met this chick on street, went for a instant date. I invited for date next day and we spend like good 5-6 hours! she moved to the city 2-3 months ago. I tried to kiss her couple of times and she's like "I'm confused. I have a thing back home, which i'm not sure about and need to clear my head." She was in a relationship for 3.5 years, it changed because she moved and she's young, 20, so i guess it means a lot to her! probably need some closure!

She is fine with me touching her, holding her hand, escalating. She reciprocates, touches me here and there. Talks to me about sex and other stuff.

Is it going anywhere? Or am i just wasting my time?

Can i do anything to make her more comfortable and turn it around physically?

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Where did you spend those 5-6 hours? Majority of girls will NOT let a stranger kiss them torridly and then fuck them passionately at McDonald's where kids are running around and grannies are babysitting their grand children. Change to a more private venue where not too many people are looking.

Nah. She won't suck your cock at Starbucks nor give you head at Panera Bread.

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@JackZero

I feel like she is playing me though, keeping me as a second option, if things didn't work out between them. Though i never speak of it to her, i don't to solve her problem. i was like it's your problem, deal with it! i wasn't asshole about it, i listened to an extend but then was like yeah, it's probably you, you attract some stinkers while laughing.

How can i not let that affect me? Can i do something to make more physical?

@Crisanto
I mean we were walking around the town in NYC, rockfeller christmas tree, then coffee shop, then we went to bar, sat there for a long time. Around christmas tree, i leaned and she gave a me little kiss, i was like that's grandma kiss, you can do better than that. And then she laid that on me.

Next time maybe ill invite her home and cook or something and see where it goes.

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If she's resisting you and still around you, she is into you. A girl from another place often leaves some guy behind and makes him some promises that she will eventually break. The thing you have over this other guy is that she's there with you while he's trying to keep her in check with text and facetime. Keep doing what you're doing except get her into your place and on your couch.

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I hear you loud and clear! And that's what i am planning too!

But she's going home on christmas and i feel like there something need to happen before that between us or it's just in my head?

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I'm struggling with what you think needs to happen. Have sex with her before she leaves. That's pretty much it.

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Right!

Any tested tips to turn a woman on sexually? any referral blogs?

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Great bounces OP. You're doing good.

If you can isolate her to your apartment next time, close the deal.

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Just keep on pushing man.

Its only been two days, she's going to come around eventually.

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Keep doing what you're doing Opie.

Go grocery shopping with her or whatever, buy some shit then go back to your place and cook it together. It's the perfect setting.

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update: She flaked on me.

So i invited her over, we went grocery shopping, back to my place, cooked, talked and had fun. She said i ended things with my ex during the week, then she came close to me and we started making out passionately on the couch. It got hot and heavy, i took her to my room. We made out a little and then she was like oh i'm tired, and she just laid on bed, pretending to be "tired". i played along and said "oh we are not having sex tonight" and then just casually started talking random shit and just like changed things up and ended the date.
i walked her to subway.

I texted her couple of days later, no reply, I called her a couple of days after, no reply. I don't get it. I mean she has been hung up on this guy for a while, then ended things with her so that she can be with me and flaked on me.

Maybe i was too nice to her on date? There is nothing left, next thing is sex and she knew! How can i improve on this?

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Her: I'm tired.
You: I know. Relax. I'll give you a massage.

Then you escalate towards the f-close. She was expecting the f-close. She threw a token resistance so you won't see her as easy-to-get. Unfortunately, you failed to demonstrate your resilience as a man and prove the intensity of your desire for her.

Women want to be desired AND they don't want to look like sluts either. Let this rest for awhile and then ask her out again. If you get three flakes in a row, move on and sarge other girls.

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no way to get her back?

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The point of agreeing and amplifying is to also keep escalating, . You just completely stopped.
I mean you really really should have sealed it then and there. What were you even thinking?

I'd let it cool for a while. Her emotions are all over the place. And for future reference, if you load the gun, pull the damn trigger when the time comes.

Whatever would have happened if you did, would it ever be worse than this?

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