Met this HB10 at a party, got her number and then we started texting. She seemed very responsive at first but I had to initiate contact everytime.

We then set up a date three weeks later but I unfortunately flaked because of work. She was cool with it and didn’t have an argument with me, so we re-scheduled.

However the next time she was the one who messaged me one day before and told me.she couldn't come, and that we could re-schedule if I wished.

I was pissed because I thought she was just Being vindictive and since she was not giving me.clear IOIs I decided to freeze her out... I would ping text her and then ignore what she said... Then one day she was mad and texted me saying I was probably a PUA (lol) and that she was deleting me because she was tired of little games.

One week later I Texted her in SPAM and I didnt even have to ask for it - she readded me because I could see her pic again.
We texted for a while but she is not flirty and everytime I try to make things more sexual she changes the topic - in a nice and funny way but she does.
The next day she texted me a link related to my football team. I took one day to reply. Then she took ten hours to reply back, and she only said "agreed it is really great" and nothing else. She didnt actually initiate a conversation.

So I decided I will not text her again but it's been one week already and she didnt say ANYTHING.... she didnt delete me from.SPAM this time so I Dont know what to think.

Did she lose interest? Is it time to move on???

Should have rescheduled. "cool no worries when ru free next week" All the pua games sometimes prevent your desired outcome from occurring.

The reason you felt vindictive is because you most likely are not presently speaking with several women.

Keep it light and loose and maybe she'll meet up.
If I were this girl I would have done the same thing.
Invite the girls out. Let them text with their gay best friends.

The thing is... Since she re added me even though I hadnt asked her to do it.... Is this a sign of interest or perhaps she was just trying to be polite?

Do you think that the fact she is only texting me to make small talk and not having a proper flirty conversation is a sign she put me in the friendzone?

So, to expand on the retarded concept of Freeze-outs.

Taking away someone's attention only works if they want it in the first place. If you show a dog a bone and then hide it, his interest in it fades in a matter of seconds. If you let the dog sniff the bone, even take a bite, and then take it away, the dog goes crazy.

She didn't put you in the friendzone. Women don't friendzone guys. Guys friendzone themselves.
You flake becuase of work, she flakes because whatever, and your immediate though is she's being vindictive and as a consequence start playing stupid games.


Ofcourse she lost interest. During this week 18 different guys may have gotten her number. You didn't bring any value in her life for her to miss, but one of them may have. And I'll bet he didn't "punish" what "PUA" considers "Bad Behavior".

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These game tactics do more harm than good.

People would get more just by being normal. These tactics were mostly used back In the indirect days and gaming disinterested girls.

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Stop playing head games with women.

Have a three-strike rule. If you asked her out the third time and she reschedules again, she's not interested. Sarge other women. This will save you a lot of time.

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What Dragula says.

You weren't being yourself. I expect for you and this girl, keep it very casual, keep sexual hints on a low level, it is going to take several months at least for her interest to come back.

You can't force it now. If you keep up the sexual stuff in a mild manner she is going to keep refuting / misdirecting but it is going to turn her on in the end anyway and at a certain point, as long as you don't overdo it and keep cool, she is going to end up liking it more because she is going to get used to it and she is going to get used that that bit of sexual fun and innuendo. And since you will have no embarassment about casually keeping it up (not fearing her rejection) in the end she'll just be like, she won't notice it anymore and hence her defense against it will fade, and without her noticing it she will join you in it. That will be around the time when her interest naturally returns (say in May even, or perhaps a little sooner but I expect really not sooner than April) and you will get your 'second chance' perhaps.

Unless I don't know what happens but the main part is: stay low, keep up some sexual word play, just be natural, never rush things (normally) or force her to do things (normally) and she will drop her guard and start letting you in at a certain point.

That's my take on this story at least. She will forget you're that PUA (or whatever she thinks it is that is) and if you're daring you can defuse it by exagerrating it, but I'd be careful with that . You'd be like "I am going to try my PUA style on you the coming two days". And then you don't say anything (over text/SPAM) and then you go "how was it?" "what?" "my pua style". Huh? Haha.

"yeah I just seduced you."

"wow amazing try it again."

"not today haha"

get comfortable around you and her.