Grab your balls and Learn how to be a man already.

If you had 5 other girls wanting you, would you really take the same shit?

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Your testosterone is low.

You're whining, moaning, bitching, complaining, not taking action, depressed, and allowing yourself to be dominated. Start boosting your testosterone up so you can be a man. I already told you what to do.

Do it.

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I play sports everyday on scholarship at a high level, I often don't even want to play because this is always on my mind and I just want to fix this. I feel weak a lot of the time. Getting my testosterone up isn't the solution to this.

You're not going to be fixed here. You are a guy that's going to have to hit rock bottom before you decide to make a decision for yourself. Anyone that can say that they are in a bad situation and too pussified to get themselves out is beyond pathetic. A pickup forum isn't your place for help.

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So what's your solution? Continue moaning and bitching about?

Get your endorphins high through those early morning runs (not jogging; sprints). Endorphins will make you feel happier. Endorphins will help you get out of your depression.

Chess, checkers and other sedentary games do not count as sports. Figure skating, ballet, no-contact karate, and synchronized swimming are just fucking gay. Those won't fix your low testosterone. Lift heavy weights to get your testosterone up! See a doctor first though before you ramp up the intensity of your exercises. Normal levels of natural testosterone will make you feel naturally dominant and not pussified like you are now.

Eat right. Cut down your sugar. Speed up your metabolism.

You don't want to do any of those?

Then go to a woman's forum and bitch about ad infinitum in there till those women get tired of giving you empathy and sympathy.

This forum is NOT for you. Whine somewhere else if you don't want to take action.

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Ofcourse thats not my solution. The relationship never use to be like this, it never use to be her abusing me and she use to put in more effort. I'm not a f*cking 'troll' or in the wrong place. Ive been on this forum since 2012. I know all the rules and the do's and don'ts. This is probably my first serious relationship, and I've lost sight.

Its almost a year and three months and thats the longest i've ever been with a girl. People say relationships have ups and downs, and there certainly was good times between us, but I didn't know this would happen.

Why are you here crying and reminiscing over what she used to be like? She's not like that anymore. She's not putting in the effort she used to. If this is your first serious relationship and you are still putting up with this, you need some other kind of help and not from this forum.

EDIT: We get your problem. No reason to keep coming back and saying how sad you are and how you're not a troll. Come back if you change your situation so we can all say good things about.

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^ That.

Realize this: When a woman is NO longer doing nice things for you and NO longer wants to have sex with you, that basically means that she is NO longer horny for you. Women get horny with high testosterone men. Make no mistake about it.

Moreover, a sure sign that a man's testosterone is low is when he refuses to take action but prefers instead to whine about and cry endlessly to get the attention of masculine men in the subconcious hope that his ass will get stuffed with hard throbbing firefighting equipment.

If you've got man boobs like Fudge88, your testosterone is not only low, you have high estrogen as well. Hence, your affinity towards crying and moaning is stronger compared with doing something to fix the problem.

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If this is true... I for one think you should stay with her and do what she says. You say you don't like the abuse but that's bs. You like it. Otherwise you'd leave. Eat healthier and stop staying up late. I'm 100 percent serious.. Your like the girl who complains her bf cheats on her all the time and she's sick of it but doesn't want to lose him. At a certain point you gotta realize the chick likes to be cheated on. If things were really that bad you'd leave. This is the relationship you want. And it may not be my thing but I gotta respect your choice to do what makes you happy. Some people enjoy abuse. If this is your longest relationship and it's like this... Well that just says that abuse may be what you were after.

Nah, I don't think so. I think he's just that pathetic. He has absolutely no self-worth and doesn't think he can find a girl that will treat him as good as this one used to.
He doesn't like being abused, he just thinks he can't do better.

So OP, you gonna do something with the advice you got here or are you just going to post again about how sad you are?

PS: hellhound what the fuck is up with all this testosterone talk? you really think being a dude with high testosterone is the end all solution to any problem?

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@RC Just normal levels. The incidence of obesity in the US and Europe is unusually high compared to just a decade ago. Many guys on here find it hard to get into a sexual state, some consume 2 liters of soda a day, many find it hard to get their dick up, and your OP right here prefers to whine rather than take action. Testosterone is the action hormone.

Working out and eating right are the easiest and quickest fixes that have scientific bearing.

If you don't want my advices, don't read them

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It doesn't work like that. If someone will advise not vaccinating a kid because it causes autism, you don't ignore. You combat it. Because it's sheer stupidity.

Anyway, I'm not saying that eating right and lifting weights won't improve your overall state of mind, but if testosterone would be a magical cure for being a pussy, almost every guy you see at the gym would be a successful beast in life.

Point is, there's much more depth to it than that, and you're making it sound like there isn't.

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I met so many people that have heaps of testosterone and lift weights, but still stuck in their with ways and not be pro-active. Instead, they let their ego and AA do the cock blocking for them. Ironically it just makes them angry. Roid rage is a myth. It's just egotistical entitlement that the gym tends to attract.

I don't get how lifting weights is tangible advice for every situation.

Getting in shape should go with out saying regarding women. But also approaching them too, I'm pretty sure testosterone and stopping watching porn doesn't cure AA and ego.

I know you mean well, but I've held my tongue for a long time because you're usually full of good advice. (Not saying the gym isn't bad advice, just that there is a bigger picture to it)

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Nah. Your premise is stupid. There's no such thing in this world as 100% certainty except for dying. I advice in terms of odds.

You gave yours. I gave mine. Mine is about the best possible odds. If you are 100% certain about yours, I have no problem with that.

It's like this: If the OP has to place his bet in a horse race, his odds for success is greater if he placed it on the fastest and strongest horse with the most skillful jockey. But of course, that is NOT a guarantee that he will win.

It's also like an Aldo vs McGregor fight. Aldo never lost a fight in the last 10 years. Your odds for winning a bet with Aldo is higher but that doesn't mean McGregor can't knock him out in the first round.

Who are you going to place your bet on? Will you bet your $100 on an OP who is prepared to take action due to an improved physical and mental state or bet it on an OP who is depressed as fuck and who is likely obese or living unhealthily?

Let's reframe that in pick up terms. Which dude will OP's girlfriend cheat with: a depressed dude with a limp cock or a happy, fun and physically fit dude with a hard, throbbing cock?

Different strokes for different folks. Personally, I always place my bet where my odds for success is higher. But that's just me. If you wish to push the OP towards greater depression by your defeatist he-is-pathetic-he-has-no-self-worth stance, I have no problem with the depth of your advice. That's just you.

Let's just agree that your advice has more depth than mine.

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