This girl that i'm interested in, is apparently also interested in myself.

So a little background, we work together and i'm interested in her. A close friend of hers told me that she is also interested in myself which was also confirmed by her sister. but when we are messaging it doesn't seem to go that well. She hasn't had a boyfriend before so that's been a little bit of a hang up and i think shes really shy, so doesn't get very flirty via text.

I really need some help bro's what are some great and easy conversation starters, also is it ok to go off on a tangent (this is fabricated) say i'm like hey hows things going today? and she replies something like yer not too bad just hanging out with the girls or something. If i then say that's cool then go off on a total tangent and say something like so i was watching iron man and was thinking I'd love to have dinner with RDJ i reckon he would be super interesting, who would you pick as your dinner guest is that weird?

Even just other suggestions you may have. But the main issue i'm having is transitioning into new topics and wondering whether it's ok to just go off on a tangent like that.

I'm heading out now for a few hours and will check back when i get home, any advice is seriously greatly appreciated, i really am interested in this girl there's something different about her so please bro's help me <3

Also please ask any questions that may give a better idea of the over all picture of things, anything that will help you bro's to help me figure out a bit of a game plan.

Thanks again

YOU: What day and time are you free this weekend?
HER: Yadah. Yadah. Yadah.
YOU: Cool. Let's watch some Wrong Turn series. Let's meet up at blah, blah, blah.

If she isolates with you to your apartment, THEN she is interested. If not, go sarge 10 other women.

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If a girl likes you, she will accept your invitation for a drink, if she isn't interested, she will make excuses or tell you she isn't interested.

It's your job to put a little pressure on her to flake or meet. Stop wasting time with "topics of conversation". You should only talk Inbetween the potential meet up.

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If only there were a better use of your time than verifying rumours and trying to covertly discover if she liked you back....

WAIT - I know... You could just ask her for a drink.

Change your mindset bro. There is nothing different about this girl. Treat her as any normal girl and take the above advises.

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Bro's thank you for the advice, i'm going to ask her for drinks tomorrow while at work and will report back.
I am sarging several chick's at the moment so don't get me wrong it's not like i'm a complete newbie i'm just having trouble with this one chick.

R.C I'm going to take a look at your texting guide now as well.

Thanks lads