| Hello fellow gents,
As the title suggests, I am a 24 year born and raised in Ecuador - South America.
I got into the game by searching different pick up lines and looking at different videos. I always thought that these techniques only worked with women from the states, since I have a pretty bad habit of generalizing people based on where they are from. I used a couple of lines to initiate conversation, and then some of the games that people recomended playing in the clubs. To my surprise, a lot of them worked and this got me more interested in pick-up.
I just read Models - and highly recommend it to anyone. My only experience with pick up has been the book and these forums, so around 2-3 weeks.
In Ecuador I have little trouble picking up girls, talking to them, and taking them out on dates. I would have say that this is mainly due to my looks - which I have been complimented my whole life. However, my looks only take me so far and I realise that my inner game is weak. My main struggle is escalating things, getting more intimate, and taking things to the next level. I am considered the "nice guy' and I have a tremendous respect for women. In my mind (and I am working to correct this) if the girl does not take it to the next step then I feel like I am doing something she doesn't want or is against. - And that is why I am here. I want to work on my confidence, attract hotter girls, and improve my communication skills.
I dedicate a large part of my time to my family (parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc..) my job, and my friends. Since my family is my priority I have set aside some of my passions so sometimes I feel like I have little to talk about with women as I have not pursued other hobbies and interests.
Nice to be part of the community, here to serve and to learn.
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