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Hi Guys
A girl I know teases me saying " i know u are a hun at heart" using the word Hun (usually a word the girls in that group use for each other). I am not a big fan of being called hun or things like that since its a bit childish and girly. How can I retort here while keeping the frame strong so that i dont come across as a jerk but rather taking it easy. Thanks a lot guys !
You have the wrong mindset. Sounds more like she is shit testing you, placing you in the friendzone frame, by calling you hun. I would flip the table by misinterpreting what she means by hun. So i would have countered with something like "oh yes, i am totally your hun. So that means we get to go shopping together and change in the same fitting room right?"
Or
"I'm not your hun sweetie, im your future ex lover"
"You should be spanked for calling me that (walks over to the girl, turns her around and says bend over)"
Both responses have a sexual undertone to it and thats what you want. Create and keep sexual tension so that she doesn't percieve you as a friend.
And fyi, you have to be a jerk sometimes if you dont want to be seen as a nice guy who she only wants to be friends with