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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 7:34 am 
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Just a little rant to let out some steam...

so I was at a club tonite, saw a girl there, so just to warm up I went to say something to her. She didn't hear me as she's like "What?" As I was about to repeat myself, she gives me the hand and turns away...I just said "never mind" and walked away

But then I wasn't motivated to do anything for the rest of the night...that really sucks, she was not even good looking...


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 8:03 am 
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Times like that are when I like to switch venues. Go to a different bar or location. Get a whole new scene. Ill sit there and jsut start singing stronger.... "tha tha tha that don't kill me, can only make me stronger." Change the vibe and talk to the next few people you see walking. REbuild that confidence cause no one wants to hang with a buzz kill.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 8:24 pm 
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Hey, I know what you mean, and I've had simular experiences in the past. I think the best thing to do is to adopt an, how should I say, "evil" point of view. At the end of the day shes only one women, fuck her! Don't switch venues, get your revenge! Make out with one of her friends! Whenever I say something to a hb and she doesn't hear me I roll my eyes up to heaven with a cocky smile on my face and walk away-at which point she'll follow you and then she'll start the conversation on your terms.Remember, shes just practice-as Mystery said,its just like a level on a computer game!

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 9:56 pm 
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What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, my friend.

Don't sweat it -- she was probably having a bad day. Who cares? Fuck it, her loss. You're the coolest guy on the planet, so she'd be lucky to be graced by your presence. ;)

It's the blows like this that strengthen you up in the long run.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 10:07 pm 
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was she on the dance floor?


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thanks for the great advices and inspirational feedback...

@chad, no she wasn't on the dancefloor, just on the side, but was just swaying back and forth


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I would say "Pleasure meeting you" (credit to Style) and walked away, i get discouraged by the same thing, its natural. just godda brush it off, take 15 minutes to regroup and decide whether to stay there or go somewhere else. if its a big club and its talent rich, stay. use her later on in the fuck marry kill game, lol

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