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OMG, She just replied to me! I didn't read whole message because I didn't want to come off like I'm sitting her online like a lonely fool waiting for women to reply lol. She read the message last night at 3am and replied just now 3:30pm. So, I'm thinking about waiting a few hours before reading (so it doesn't look so pitiful) and then reply to her message tomorrow (unless her message says something like, "Can I come over tonight"). But, before I do anything I wanted to get your feedback and what you would do if you were in the situation?
I think your problem is that you're acting like a girly woman, and you think it's about something you said.
Dude, it's about who you ARE.
What are you, a ballerina?
OMG she just texted and I'm thinking of replying later because if I reply immediately she'll think I'm a loser
and I don't want her to think I'm a loser but I feel so gittyy now because she responded but I must
not show it!! Wohoo!!
Dude, chill out. Quit being a little bitch.
Girls can feel this shit coming from your words.
Man up.
Understood,
Here's my update
OK, Here's my update: I'll try to describe these women as best I can.
1. Miss "You're too short for me" did leave me her number and we die text each other for a minute but not expecting much.
2. Miss "VIP" I took your guys advice and took her out on a date and let her do all the talking ...she did. As a summary this is someone I met a few years ago but never went past Day 1 and I hardly attempted a Day 2 because, I just didn't feel like it (was more career focused). So, finally I said, let's meet for dinner this week and she said yes. We went out and after listening to her brag about her life for an hour we left out of the place and we both almost simultaneously put our arms around each other (wow! amazing what keeping your mouth shut can do). She came over to my spot and we watched a movie and made out a little. I slightly pushed for a "F-Close" (dry humping) but she was a little resistant and shortly after I took her home. Her apartment was a complete mess, she said from her trying to rearrange something. I spent about an hour there tell me what she wanted to do to the place and oh yeah, she mentioned she has seasonal depression. So, we kissed goodnight and since then, there's been a few texts back and forth but that's it. I haven't done too much because I don't wanna mess things up until I get feedback.
3. Miss "I wanna be a DJ" I met her about a year ago and made out with her then in the Car. I rekindled things taking to the same spot we made out in last time. We initiated making out after about an hour after she saw another couple making out and I guess that made her horny (thanks couple). I want to say she came over to my place the next night? Yeah, she did but her time was limited because she had to be up early. I thought she was coming over for sex because she was wearing some warm up pants. We cuddled but her kisses were less passionate than the night before. I was thinking it had something to do with her being "tipsy" when we made out at the club but she insinuated in a text saying, She wasn't feeing 100% that night and she was probably giving off some vibes. Since then she's been texting me but there's been no escalation towards another date mostly because of her schedule, kids, and holiday. She has put in more effort than I have texting though but it's pretty much just about what she's going through with life.
I bring up all three scenarios for reason so I can ask a question.
1. Is there anything I should or shouldn't do?
2. I'm thinking a "freeze out" would be appropriate. What about you guys?
My point is this. If I continue to just text with no escalation, I feel like the ALL will slam me in the friend zone. But, I need more time to get this "PUA thing" down and If I freeze out, maybe it will keep them from putting me in the zone and when I reinitiate contact I'll be more equipped to deal with their bs.
CHAT
