Lol. I forgot about that. JackZero is right.

It's mission critical that you have fun. Girls do not enjoy mechanical sex. Girls, however, enjoy technical sex when you're having fun.

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Thank you a lot, I'll work it out and then will post results

2 things.

The first I got from a Tim Ferriss blog post, and it works. As far as clitoral stimulation while you're inside her, stop thrusting in and out for a while and instead move your entire lower body up and down so that your pelvic area is rubbing up and down on her clit and outer vagina while your penis is still inside her. Alternate between that and thrusting.

The other thing, which was alluded to earlier in the thread, is that you've got to make her want it bad. Tease her, make her wait for it. Touch her in her erogenous zones. Get to know where those are and make use of delicate and sensual finger (or mouth or tongue) motions to really get her revved up. [This works even if you are going the oral route - don't just stick your tongue on it. Go everywhere BUT there, and slowly get closer to it as her anticipation builds.] Women's orgasms are much more mental than men's. Sometimes you don't even need to touch the vagina to give her one. Of course it does vary woman to woman.

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Actually, it's the reverse. Make no mistake about it. This wrong information will fuck up your bedroom skills.

A woman's clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings compared with the ENTIRE penis' 4,000.

The typical man will cum within 2 minutes of penis-in-the-vagina. Some will pop their load just by seeing a pink nipple or just brushing the dick on a woman's smooth legs. A healthy man's cock immediately stands at attention upon seeing a hot woman. Men ARE more mental compared with women when it comes to orgasms. On the other hand, women are more physical compared to men when it comes to orgasms. Women can cum +50 consecutive times. Men can't take that physical beating of pleasure.

Work on the physical aspects of giving a woman orgasms rather than the mental. It isn't rocket science. Men get hard and cum faster compared with women because men are more mental. On the opposite end, it would take more time to turn on a woman with physical touches and give her a vaginal orgasm.

Don't be lazy. Improve the physical so you're the best fuck women will ever have.

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Lazy would be trying to polish her clit to death as if you were wacking off. Physical touch is important, YES. And clitoral stimulation certainly plays a role, but it's not the whole thing by a long shot. Mastering your touch of her erogenous zones is much more important to getting her to that peak state. If you don't know Vin DiCarlo's kino escalation ladder, that's a good place to start.

Men's sexual arousal and orgasm relies on stimulation and on visualization, too, yes. It's no secret that women's sexual arousal often relies on fantasies and imagination. Women's orgasms also rely on this, in addition to stimulation. (Men's orgasms can rely on imagination, too, to a lesser degree.) Does nobody read My Secret Garden anymore? This, in addition to the fact that all women orgasm differently, should prompt you to not only become better at sticking your penis in her but to become better at having mind-blowing sex using her whole body and mind.

And hey, Monsignor Crisanto, if it makes you feel better calling me out as "wrong" then knock yourself out, kid. But don't try to steer OP away from some info that might help him, just so you can be "right" on the internet. I'm trying to help a brother out with what has worked extremely well for me. He can decide for himself which advice he takes.

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That's just fucked up. You didn't even read the original post of this thread. The OP wanted to give his woman vaginal orgasms.

If you can detail how to give women mental vaginal orgasms, then that would be helpful. It's just that no amount of door slamming when you pop your load in 2 minutes can give women vaginal orgasms.

You ought to read the works of Masters and Johnson instead as their studies involved both men and women which makes sexual comparisons between genders clearer and more insightful.

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Apart from arguing with each other, I really appreciate the information both of you gave me!

It happens that I'm starting to feel I don't know more what to do...in the past i gave my woman a few orgasms but since I came here asking for advice it only happened once and it wasn't even a strong one.

Can the pill affect this? We talked about it and it all started after she skipped the last placebo pills from the monthly pill to start a new one and avoid having period. We also have been having sex at night at the end of the day when we are both tired at most times, I find this can also not help but I can't accept not getting into orgasm state for a whole month and I don't want to use this as an excuse.

There was a time when I even felt her pussy closing and opening fast against my dick like she just orgasmed or was about to orgasm and after talking I found out she didn't make it. I'm really running out of options...can my woman have her clitoris too far away from her pussy making it hard to giving her clitoral orgasms with my dick? Can be but seems i can't also give her another type of orgasm apart from this...

I'm trying to be as honest as possible about my sex life, sorry for seeking so much help I really thank you for the time you've taken to answer me

Unlike men who would obviously know that they have had an orgasm, most women actually don't know it and cannot describe it. Clinical researchers have plotted the orgasmic phase among women using MRI (magnetic resonance imaging) and these are the tell-tale visual physical signs that a woman is undergoing a series of orgasms:

1. Involuntary stomach spasms. Her stomach muscles will be well defined during this stage.

2. Reddening of the chest and/or earlobes.

3. Involuntary quivering of the entire body while raised up.

As for the strength or intensity of orgasm, a strong orgasm is characterized by at least 8 involuntary contractions of the vagina-- the sensation on your penis is like being eaten and sucked by a vagina with muscular teeth.

Your description is really vague on how you implemented the instructions. The common pitfalls though are wrong timing and shifting from one position to the next. To objectively time your technique, you'll have to play songs at the background. A typical song is around 3 minutes so 10 songs is the rule of thumb for a proper vaginal orgasm via the thrusting motions of your penis. If you keep on changing positions during the entire 30 minutes instead of focusing on just one spot, then you're doing it all wrong. You need to have a rhythm, constancy and steadiness in the execution of your technique.

While every woman is different, their anatomy is the same. Unless your girl has a reproductive health ailment, proper timing and focus should deliver the goods.

The best indicators though that you banged a girl real good are these:

1. After the sleepover, she'll cook you breakfast (even when you didn't ask her) while humming a song.

2. She'll do nice things for you after the sleepover, like doing your laundry, cleaning house, or buying groceries for you.

3. She'll quickly lend you $100 (no questions asked) when you ask her after the sleepover.

Hint: Some women can get orgasms just by washing laundry near a washing machine where the vibration is rhythmic, constant and steady.

Btw, how many minutes did it take to pop your load when you banged to fast song rhythms like Deep Purple's Highway Star or Daddy Yankee's Gasolina?

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Me and her have been quite busy during this week but I'll post new results as soon as I have them

I can go for about as much as I want in any position except for doggy and another where the girl lays on her side while i fuck her in my knees. Thrusting fast without cumming it's still hard for me in this positions but i can keep it for atleast a minute or two...how long shoud I be able to handle it in order to be more successful?
I find it easy to do unless I'm in that point where I know my climax is about to come.
That's exactly what I felt, I couldn't describe it better! I even found it hard to keep my dick movement while it was happening, but in the end she told me she didn't orgasm is it possible? Or can I have gave her different types of orgasm in the past and she doesn't felt this one as a full one?

Was she humming a song the morning after and cooked you a nice hot breakfast?

Btw, when you start to feel the vaginal contractions on your penis, you should take it out so her sensation of the orgasm is more intense, then you put it right back in again after the involuntary contractions for her next round of orgasm. Repeat and rinse.

Always a gauge a woman's actions; NOT her words.

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She didn't cook me breakfast but I already noticed everytime she feels good after intercourse she stays ultra sweet and sensitive and really wants me to join her in bed, have a good conversation or just cuddle intensively. When sex ain't that good she stays sweet but not that much.

Thanks for the tip on taking my penis out.

Do you have any recommended readings about sex apart from Sex God Method, She Comes First and David Shade's Manual?

Have you tried sending her my way?

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If she hasn't cooked you breakfast yet, then you're popping your load way too early or changing positions too frequently in so short a time.

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I'm from Europe it'll cost me around 31USD is it worth it? If yes I'll buy it since I'm trying to put in practice as much knowledge as possible

I already distilled the most important parts for you NOT only from that book but also from a lot of other clinical books and my multiple experiences through the years. You might only get embroiled in paralysis due to over analysis.

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