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I know the right thing to do is to break up with her, because im worried my damn brain will affect our relationship in the future. But she is trying very hard now to please me in any way possible. Because i think she feels something is wrong from me.
You know guys when I wrote down all my questions and she answered me like i said i did. Some answers were okay and some I didnt like. But thats not the problem, im not sure if she was 100% honest with me. Because i know for a fact that shes afraid i will think she is a slut and leave her. And because I caught her lie, I dont feel like I can trust her words anymore like I used to.
When i opened the topic about breakup, i felt she was going to get a heart attack. Its not so easy, i feel horrible. Her parents know we are suppose to get married, her friends know, she even rejected alot of guys for me... I wont lie, all my life i dreamed of a girl like her. I talked with some friends and they told me to chill and not overthink shit, and with time everything will be clear.
Anyways thx for being the most ruthless advisors in my life, but i do see and understand all your points of view. I will keep updating I guess.. thx
I don't get it dude. Say she fucked 5 dudes before you. Or 10. Who the fuck cares? People grow. They learn from their past experiences. Good or bad.
In all honesty, what she did before she met is you absolutely none of your business and
NOT your place to judge, especially when it's absurdly low numbers.
We live in 2015. A woman that likes having sex is not a slut. If she's sucking guys off in the back alley for a compliment and a snickers bar, then she's a slut.
Your standards are absurd in my opinion. Is she a good girl? are you happy together? then stop living in
her fucking past.
If people never grew with experience we'd still be living in the stoneage.
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