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lol , ok aside from building atraction , ( that would probably need so many meet ups to pump atraction ) I 've heard of some method that involves multiple small requests that lead up to the date . But the restaurant I have in mind for example has nothing special around it ... which requests should I try and make on a girl to shape her compliance for the date ?
If you have enough attraction, dates will come naturally. First thing's first.
On your question, instead of directly asking her out, plan some event/activity that you both are interested in and ask her to do that activity/come to that event instead of asking to meet you. So for example, if you mentioned about going to a concert or bowling, ask her to join you in bowling. This way it feels more natural.
Don't know anything about this multiple small requests method.