1st off, maybe stop being a dick to those trying to help you. They possess leadership skills hat effected the PUA world tremendously.

You posed that you needed advise.

You were raised to believe in the Madonna-whore complex.

It's completely unrealistic.

You lust for this sexual and beautiful woman but she will never respect her as "wife" material and he will never marry her. In your eyes, she is tainted, by long gone ghost cock.

You are only going to stifle your male existence by maintaining this belief.

Your likely candidate, is good at "wifely" domestic things: cooking, cleaning, homemaking in general. But more likely very bitchy, plain, and shitty in bed.

I'm sure you may possess passionate feelings for this girl. other wise you wouldn't be here trying to 'fix' it.

But not to worry, if you remain on this misguided path, it will fix itself.

And a lot more dicks will be in her after it does.

An average of about 8 more will enjoy that cavernous vagina before she settles into her NEXT LTR.

That, will be on YOU.

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Thank you DavidDhall

And Heywood I wasnt being a dick to anyone, he was just trying to be funny about me turning gay.

Anyways thx for all your opinions I read them carefully and took them into consideration. And my candidate is wife material, i wont lie about that. I handled everything and i decided we will continue our relationship and try to overcome everything.

Oh god another problem guys, we have been having unprotected sex. So when we first started I asked her if she had was having safe sex. She said her ex didnt wear a condom the first time but later he did. The reason why I asked, because after we had sex the first few times I got skin irritation, went to a dermatologist said it was eczema. So didnt make a big deal.

As I said before, I just found out her ex was 9 years older, so that worried me because he might be carrying some shit and given it to her. I plan on getting tested, but when I confronted her about it, she said she doesnt remember if he was wearing or not lol. That she was too shy to look. Bullshit, so i went all crazy on her ass and told her if she thinks im fuckin stupid.

She cried and said she will tell me everything. She did say he used to sometimes fuck without condoms. So i asked why the lie, she said she doesnt know and that she is sorry. And that with her ex she wasnt as shy as she made me believe and that her telling me she was only really comfortable with me is a lie. I dont know guys, i feel bad inside my chest like something is wrong.

Im starting to believe she might have not been honest about alot of things and this innocent act is just to fool me. I know she would never find anyone like me, the way i treat her, im successful and look good. If i leave her im breaking her heart and also i would feel horrible. but its not the same when I look at her face, its like i feel she just got uglier.

Please guys before you say that im insecure or anything like that. I want you to know that I think if we get married she is going to be the woman raising our kids and she will have access to my finances so its very important.

Dude, you sound like an abuser. And i'm not someone who likes to throw around that word lightly. But let's be real, you're with a weak girl, because you're a weak man. You couldnt pull half of this shit with a woman who actually had some self worth, so same way she wont find someone like her, you can't do better. Your values are YOUR values, and I'd fully support your right to follow whatever religious values you have. But truth is, if you and your family valued virgins before marriage, you wouldnt have fucked this chick before marrying her. So your religious principles here are bs. It's just plain old insecurity. But good news is you 2 are good together imo. She likes abuse and crying and you have no problem making your girl cry over her past. I fully belive people should be able to have the relationship they want, even if its abusive.

I dont abuse her, never man. Im the kindest guy ever. I only made her cry like 3 times and that was only these days. And we have been together for more than 10 months. I didnt say i was religious, I just said my family is. I might be a weak man, but I believe in honesty and loyalty. I didnt leave her because I know, It will be almost impossible to find a girl who loves me as much as her. But anyways thank you for the advise

What is the actual problem? You picked this girl. She's making you look and sound like an idiot. You want to marry her and have kids. You are responsible for the decisions you are making and you aren't smart enough to put your brain before emotion and idealism.

Like I said before... Grow up.

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My only problem is im not beta like most men here. Alot of guys would marry a girl that jumped on 50+ dicks with no problem. Later to get cheated on and live a miserable life. I shouldnt have posted here, long time ago read gambler's book and got into game. So thought I would come here for advice but I guess its a beta community. Men dont mind being married to sluts and being settled for.... Well peace out!!!

LMAO...You're not happy now. Here's the problem with you. Your girlfriend has told you that it was only one other guy. You have no idea if it were 50+ guys. You are already figuring out she's playing innocent, but you want to marry her anyway. When is her honesty going to start? Is it going to start after you find out about other guys? You can come here and call me or any other guy a beta, but you are a guy that is willing to marry and have kids with a woman that isn't honest and doesn't fit your ideal description. What guy in their right mind settles for something that they don't want? It definitely isn't an Alpha male.

Good luck with getting the image of your girl riding another man raw and him giving her her first orgasm and facial.

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Jack god damn, hahah.

The only reason you don't know the truth about how many men she's been with is because you're a prejudiced little bitch.
Ofcourse she won't want to be honest with know when she knows your predisposition towards going ape shit on her whenever you hear something you don't like.
You don't believe in "honesty and loyalty", because you can't handle honesty.

And if you scanner is so broken that you can't tell the difference between what's an actual slut and a quality woman, and you have to rely on her telling you the exact number of guys that have been deep inside, how many cream pies and how many facials she has had in order to make that assessment, then you have way bigger issues to worry about.

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Yeah Jack thank you for making me read that.

Actually i can handle honesty since i never went ape shit when she told me the truth. And that is not when she tells me about her past but even things going on now. Like going out for drinks with friends, some men worry, i dont when she tells me.

I do see she is quality woman, i wouldnt be here if she wasnt. She's not a slut, and the lies that she said were minor considering what women lie about these days.

Im not sure about her number, but she is also very inexperienced in bed and some positions make her feel pain. But still im not 100% sure.

What I did was, got a piece of paper. Listed all the questions i had in mind and asked. Its crazy but i have standards when it comes to the woman im spending my life with, so i had to ask. She might have lied, but I will know eventually.. even if its the smallest lie, i would leave her that second without a thought and she knows it.

And Jack if you had any brains you would know that me decision to marry her is not final. I will see how things work out the next year first.

Poor misguided soul.
You got that right.

You live in a world that has walls, and those walls have to be guarded by your best friend - denial.

Curiosity killed the cat, the truth you really didn't want to know just ends bursting your bubble.

Did she lie? Of course she did, she was simply trying to shield you.

She WANTS you to see her as a Princess, NOT a slut.

You did your best to coerce the 'sexual truth' from her, she gave you only the tip of the iceberg, and you went apeshit muwahaha im so cucu! Just as she expected.

Now she is cursed only to be nagged incessantly for explicit details from now on.

You are fucked.

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How am i in denial lol.

Im not nagging for sexual details, just a screening process. What is wrong about knowing her history. I dont see what im doing is any sort of abuse or crime. And i told her she can ask me what she wants too.

After 10 months, you've only figured out that she's started lying to you about her innocence in the last couple of days. She knows you can be fooled and she isn't worried about you leaving her because she's lied to you and you're still there. Not only are you still there, you are justifying the lies that she tells. You've already pointed out why you want this girl so badly and it's because you know you can't find another woman that will love you the way that she does.

You have standards when it comes to the woman you're spending the rest of your life with. Let's talk about two of the standards:
1. She must be a virgin
2. She can't tell even the smallest of lies

Those are your disqualifiers. You are basically telling us that your standards don't mean shit. One year from now, whatever you uncover about her past won't mean shit either because you'll never find another woman that loves you the way she does. It says a lot about you and what you really stand for. Beneath all of the false bravado of the success, good looks, and higher standards is a man that will take what's presented to him because he fears he doesn't have the ability to get what her really wants. If you were actually likeable, I would feel sorry for you.

BTW...do you think that some of those positions hurt her could be from the damage some giant dicked dude may have done to her insides?

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Damn.....

Yeah damm you guys show no mercy. So my solution is to break up with her?